Is he just a sweet talker, or does your Libra man really miss you?
Here’s how to know if a Libra man misses you:
- He’s going out of his way to see you, not just saying he will
- He’s reaching out again and again
- He can’t stop talking about you to anyone who will listen
I assume your goal is to make your Libra man fall passionately, wildly in love with you.
If you want to do that, you’ll need to learn how his mind works and study his secret fears and desires with a guide like Libra Man Secrets.
If you want to dive in now, click the link above, or scroll on to see what a pining Libra man looks like.
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Ways to Know If a Libra Man Misses You
1. He takes action to see you
A Libra man might say sweet stuff because Libra guys are nice guys, and they prefer to make every moment happy and beautiful.
The real test is how he’s acting.
Keep an eye out for the Libra man who’s putting in the effort to see you.
Not flaking out at the last minute with no legitimate excuse.
He’s showing up to the group hang where he knows you’ll be, the party you RSVP-ed “yes” to, the BBQ your friend is throwing.
He’s throwing invites your way too, crossing the bridge and reaching out to you with concrete plans.
If he’s trying hard to see you, odds are, your Libra guy genuinely misses you.
2. He’s listening to your music
If you’re on Spotify and notice that your Libra man is playing one of your favorite songs, your man is missing you.
Libras are proud curators when it comes to art in all forms, and music is a direct line to their hearts.
A Libra man remembers who introduced him to what band, where he was when he heard a song for the first time, what song was playing when he had his first kiss.
He probably has playlists for when he’s feeling a certain way, doing a certain activity, or wants to think about something…or someone.
If the sentimental Libra is venturing out past his carefully curated playlists to listen to your music, he’s doing it to scratch an itch because he can’t see you right now.
3. He’s talking about you to anyone who will listen
A Libra man has something of a hive mind—he’s a communal thinker.
He gets clarity by talking things through to get perspective.
The more focused he is on something (or someone), the more he will need to talk about it with trusted sources.
And who better to give him informed advice than friends?
So maybe you had a fight, or a breakup, or just haven’t seen each other in a while.
But if you hear through the grapevine that your Libra is probing mutuals for information about you, he can’t stop thinking about you!
4. He’s blowing up your phone
Libras are extremely social creatures.
Because of this, you’re probably used to chatting with your Libra pretty often, but maybe all of a sudden, he’s reaching out a lot…
….Like a lot, a lot.
Your Libra guy has a tendency to get hyper-focused on the people he cares about.
He needs a certain amount of attention from you to feel satisfied and secure.
If he feels like his meter is getting low, he’ll overcompensate with lots of texting, dm-ing, FaceTiming, etc.
He’ll find tiny excuses to reach out to you like, “Hey, I thought you’d laugh at this meme.”
Or he’ll ask you what you think about what his next haircut should be.
Whatever—anything to get your attention.
5. He tells you!
Even though Libras prefer to say what will make you happiest, they are still straight shooters when and where it counts.
A Libra man won’t say he misses you if he doesn’t.
If he doesn’t really care all that much, he would rather say comforting things that are pretty indirect but don’t mean much.
If he does miss you, he’ll have no hang-ups about stating it.
That is, as long as you haven’t had a fight and he’s trying to get over it.
In general, a Libra man pining for you has the goal of making you his, and he’ll use every charming tactic in his bag to do so.
Like trying to make you blush by telling you he misses you.
If you want to make all the right moves in return and avoid the mistakes, follow the advice in Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s Libra Man Secrets.
Other Libra Man Questions
Is your Libra man playing you?
Libras can sometimes string others along because it’s so hard for them to say “No” to people.
This makes some Libras wind up getting a reputation for being players.
But also, Libras are totally capable of liking and even loving multiple people at the same time.
If your Libra man hasn’t made a solid commitment to you or you haven’t had the conversation about whether you’re monogamous or not, look for these signs he’s playing you:
- He agrees to see you but never makes a plan
- He says he’ll meet up with you and your friends but ditches you with no excuse
- He’s in and out of your life saying he misses you one minute and then ghosting you the next
Does a Libra man like to be chased?
Libra men are all about balance.
They want to feel wanted by you, but they also want there to be enough mystery there to feel compelled to chase you.
Basically, you can reel him in but only to a certain distance.
Let him get hooked and reel himself in the rest of the way.
To get him excited, be fun and flirty and use your body language to make it clear that you want him.
Signs your Libra man is hiding his feelings
If you think your Libra guy is hiding feels, one sign to look out for is if he’s acting weird around you.
Libras are highly sociable.
Because of this, they aren’t easily thrown off their game in a social setting.
If he’s stumbling on his words, it’s likely because has feelings for you.
He might also be choosing his words extra carefully around you.
Usually, Libras are chatty as can be, but a quieter Libra man might be thinking (or overthinking) about how to play it cool and not let his guard down.
How to know if a Libra man is serious about you
When a Libra man is serious about someone, he gives plenty of signs.
For one thing, he will want to share everything with you, from your passions to the music he’s listening to right now.
Generally, a Libra man who seriously loves you becomes more stable and committed in the way he acts.
Like, he lets you meet his folks.
He gets better about making tangible plans and following through.
And he lets you see underneath his calm, collected exterior and opens up about his fears and anxieties.
For more signs, check out How to Know If a Libra Man Is Serious About You.
Signs a Libra man is not into you
Besides the obvious like telling you, there are a couple of signs you can look out for to see if a Libra guy is not into you.
For one, Libras love attention.
However, they only really want attention from people who capture their interest.
If he’s not making the effort to try to entertain you or talk to you, it’s likely he’s not into you.
Another way to tell is by looking at your conversation history.
Even if he usually replies, are you always the one to text first?
Libras take initiative when they really want you.
If he’s never the one to reach out, he probably doesn’t like you like that.
How do you make a Libra man obsessed with you?
A Libra prides himself on his taste.
That includes fashion, music, art, food and everything in between.
If you’re into him, have good taste yourself.
Find out what he’s into, brush up on your knowledge and get creative.
You don’t have to copy his style, but do have your own.
Also, compliment him on his.
Show appreciation for the things he’s into and that you can even broaden his horizons.
This melts a Libra man and will have him obsessed with you in no time.
How to make a Libra man regret losing you
There’s more than one way to show a Libra man what he’s missing and make him regret you walking out the door.
(For our top tips, check out How to Make a Libra Man Miss You.)
Look your best and have him notice that you’re turning heads.
Tell stories and get into the spotlight. Have him wishing he was sharing it with you.
Post pictures of yourself doing the things he loves.
If you’re ready to get your Libra man to commit to you, try Libra Man Secrets.
It’s like walking around inside his mind so he can’t hide things from you.