Taurus men aren’t easy catches.
If you want to be with one, here’s how to love a Taurus man:
- Never smother, but do give him consistent attention
- Nurture him
- Let him know there’s no one else but him
- Be understanding, even when he’s stubborn
- Appreciate an old-fashioned courtship and relationship
Keeping a Taurus man is challenging, as many women can attest. And once he makes up his mind that the relationship isn’t working, it can be near impossible to get him back.
Your best bet is to make sure you really know who he is and what he wants deep down, which a guide like Taurus Man Secrets will open your eyes to.
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How do you make a Taurus man feel loved?
One of the most important ways to make a Taurus man feel loved is through physical contact.
Touch is his love language.
A Taurus man who cares for you will lean in, stare deep into your eyes and tuck your hair behind your ear.
If you want him to make him feel loved, reciprocate!
Use your hands and lovin’ arms to stroke his head and hug him tight.
When you touch him tenderly, you communicate that you feel just as strongly about him as he does about you.
It also shows that you sexually desire him. And for a Taurus, being on the same wavelength in terms of intimacy is vital.
Besides this, taking care of a Taurus man in a nurturing way lets him know how much you care.
It’s being attentive to him, without him asking, that makes him feel special.
Now, let’s get into the details of what you can do specifically to show your love for your Taurus man.
Read next: How to Make a Taurus Man Happy
How to love a Taurus man
1. Dote on him
As we talked about earlier, nurturing the Taurus man makes him feel loved and gives him a major aspect of what he’s looking for in a relationship—
Someone to cherish and care for him, both emotionally and physically.
What can you do?
Feed him good home-cooked food.
Massage his temples when he’s stressed.
When he shares something with you, listen with interest and empathy.
He’ll be getting you little gifts to woo you—get him a thoughtful little gift instead.
Doting on him like this shows that you’re the affectionate type of partner he needs.
2. Show him consistent attention
Taurus guys are not high-maintenance by any stretch. But they do require a certain amount of attention.
Knowing that he’s important to you and that you’re not going to mess with his head gives a Taurus a feeling of security.
For example, sending him texts now and again to say “Good morning” or “Sleep tight” can mean a lot to him.
Especially if you don’t get to see each other often because you’re long-distance or your schedules are busy.
Don’t smother him, but do be consistent.
He needs stability and predictability.
Being a reliable source of love and affection for him is an easy but highly effective way to satisfy his needs as a couple.
3. Prepare for one step forward, two steps back
If it hasn’t already happened to you, your Taurus man is probably going to pull away from you at some point.
When it happens, you should not jump to the conclusion that he’s gone off you.
Often, Taurus men do this when they’re falling madly in love.
They are a bit like control freaks, needing to hit pause and study the romantic situation to figure out if it’s good for them.
When it happens, it’s best to keep cool through it.
Respect the boundaries the Taurus man needs to set up, whether he wants to put a hold on your physical relationship temporarily or go on a three-week solo trip.
Demonstrating that you can handle this and stay loyal to him throughout makes him feel safe loving you.
4. Show him he’s your one and only
Just like he needs regular attention, a Taurus man needs reassurance that you’re not looking elsewhere.
He can be insecure about even your male friendships, no matter how platonic.
You shouldn’t have to get rid of any of your friends just because your man is jealous. However—
You’ll need to get where your Bull is coming from.
If you want an easy-to-understand guide to navigate situations like these, check out Taurus Man Secrets.
In the meantime, you can make him feel more comfortable by telling him upfront when you’re planning to see a guy friend.
Keep your phone on to reply to his texts when you’re hanging out.
In general, don’t show any flirty behavior toward other men. Ignore guys who try to flirt with you, even on social media (because your Taurus will be checking).
Over time, you will build solid trust and your Taurus man will open his heart to you more and more.
5. Be sensual in bed
Sex is incredibly important to the happiness of all Tauruses.
They’re sensual, high-libido lovers who have a great need for romance and passion in the bedroom.
If you can meet their needs, they’ll worship you.
Taurus men like to dominate in bed. But they use their power to tease and please you in ways no one else has ever taken the time to do.
They like it when their partners go slow and let their hands and bodies do the talking (although verbalizing your desire is not against the rules!).
Making the environment more intimate with low lighting, silky sheets and candles can bring out both of your inner romantics.
6. Be good with money
If you love a Taurus man, show him that you’re a responsible spender.
In the twelve houses of the zodiac, Taurus rules the second house: the house of personal possessions and money.
Tauruses are protective of their finances and good at knowing their spending limits.
But they also want their women to be money-conscious because it shows they’re mature and responsible.
Be respectful of his money, too.
Offer to split the bill at the restaurant sometimes, even if you know he’s going to decline.
Don’t expect him to get you every last little movie ticket and Starbucks.
If you’re fair-minded and you don’t spend your money on frivolous things like water, the Taurus man can more easily see a future with you.
7. Appreciate his old-fashioned ways
When you’re in love with a Taurus man, you fall for everything about him.
That includes his old-world views of relationships.
He wants to feel like the man in the relationship, with him leading and his lady following.
This goes for anything from planning a special weekend away to moving your relationship to the next level.
Let him make the decisions he wants to make.
Value him as a thoughtful, loving partner and provider.
In return, he will devote himself to giving you everything you want and making sure you never lack romance.
8. Let things go
Got issues with your Taurus man? Let me tell you, you can’t win an argument.
He will never let you win, no matter how right you are.
But that’s not what your focus should be, otherwise you’ll end up in a self-destructive relationship.
You have to be the person to rise above and let it go.
Make your aim to keep the peace.
Although a Taurus man is stubborn as the days are long, and can even be childish when he’s mad, he wants peace.
Try to see where your Bull is coming from and talk like two rational adults—when you’re not both heated in the moment.
Fighting and bickering will give a Taurus man a reason to rethink being together.
On the other hand, a harmonious relationship makes him think he could be with you for the long haul.
Other Taurus man questions
How do you emotionally connect with a Taurus man?
First, you have to realize that his type of connecting is not the verbal kind. It’s the physical kind.
If you want to connect in the moment, remember to touch him affectionately and set the mood in the room.
Make it cozy for your Taurus guy. Nice smells, intimate lighting, sinking into soft pillows on the couch.
While a thoughtful text from you is nice and appreciated, it’s not nearly as strong as in-person contact.
Read more about it in How to Emotionally Connect With a Taurus Man.
How do you know if a Taurus man loves you?
Look for signs that show he trusts you as well as increased intimacy.
You’ll get to know his family and friends.
He’ll want to hold you through the night and he’ll start sharing things with you that you know he doesn’t share with anyone else.
Read more signs in How Do You Know When a Taurus Man Loves You?
What a Taurus man wants in a relationship?
A Taurus man wants a relationship that he can rely on.
He needs stability and doesn’t want to be with anyone who brings drama or who can’t stand on her own two feet.
But beyond this, what he really wants is true love.
Secretly, he’s hoping to find a kind of love that’s filled with passion and desire, but also friendship, security and understanding.
In a word, his soulmate.
Read also: What a Taurus Man Wants in a Relationship
How to make a Taurus man fall in love with you
It might sound unexciting, but start with the basics.
Build trust, be supportive of him and show that he can depend on you.
Without these, a Taurus man can’t give you his heart.
If you really want to make him fall madly in love, you should give him all the romance and TLC he desires.
We can show you what to do in How to Make a Taurus Man Fall in Love With You.
Above all, acceptance and deep understanding equals love to the Taurus man.
If you want to know your Taurus on that kind of level, check out Taurus Man Secrets.
This guide has been written for women who want to build a future with a Taurus man, but don’t know how to overcome the obstacles.