If you’re in a relationship with a Taurus man, it’s the one question that can’t go unanswered: How do you know when a Taurus man loves you?
An important sign you should know (but that’s difficult to interpret) is this weird thing he does where he starts pumping the brakes a little in the middle of all the romance.
Believe it or not, the Taurus man has good reason for this. It has to do with establishing a truly meaningful relationship.
Call it a test.
And you’ve got to be ready when it happens.
Yes, it’s confusing. That’s why we stress the importance of getting to know how the Taurus man works on a deep level, so you won’t “fail” those tricky tests he’s famous for setting up.
If you want to know the right responses and avoid trial and error, you want the Taurus man dating guide Taurus Man Secrets.
Click the link if you want to start now, or keep reading to learn about the big 8 signs of a Taurus’s loving feelings.
How Do You Know When a Taurus Man Loves You?
Is it in his kiss like Betty Everett once said?
Maybe, but you can’t go on that alone. Taurus just can’t help but ooze the Venusian quality of sensuality in intimate moments.
What we really want to know is what’s in his heart.
You might think this would be an easy task, but there are times when Taurus guys can seem like closed books to the rest of us non-Taurus zodiac signs. And even to other Tauruses.
Getting to know his personality is a good way to begin understanding his motives and explaining the things he does.
And if you’re ready to take the plunge…check out How to Get a Taurus Man to Marry You.
The Taurus Personality
Who is this mysterious man?
If you’ve been living with your Taurus for a while, you may have some “aha” moments as you make connections between the traits long predicted by astrology and his behavior in everyday life.
Very broadly, the Taurus can be described as a stable, easy-going, not-overly-emotional person. With family, friends and partners, he is loyal and caring.
You’ve probably heard about Taurean stubbornness, which is a real thing. You can’t make a Taurus budge on something they’ve decided on if they don’t want to be swayed.
But that same stubbornness can be such a wonderful thing—Tauruses don’t give up on meaningful pursuits and relationships easily or quickly.
As a Venus-ruled sign, Taurus loves beauty, art, creativity and often luxury. They like to be surrounded by things that make them feel good, and that definitely counts for sensory stuff like soft blankets and their favorite music.
If you’ve bagged a Taurus man, you may have noticed a well-defined romantic streak. Taurus men also prefer to take charge much of the time, including between the sheets. They’re known as slow, sensual lovers, a reputation that draws the attention of a wide variety of star signs.
One thing that’s key to remember: A steady pace defines much of what the Taurus does, romance included. Tauruses don’t trust easily, but once they do, you’ll find in them an extremely loyal partner who will go to the ends of the earth to protect you.
If you’re patient, you’ll give your Taurus man the time he needs to settle into the relationship. And if you keep your eyes peeled, you’ll notice the subtle signs of his love.
Read also: How Does a Taurus Man Act When in Love
How a Taurus Man Acts When He’s in Love
1. He dedicates time to you.
A Taurus man is definitely NOT going to spend his precious time with anyone he isn’t invested in in some way. So if he’s not spending time with you out of some sort of work obligation or other commitment, he’s doing it because he wants to. And that’s a big deal.
He’ll make it a point to see you after work. He’ll want private time with you. If you get regular one-on-one time with him, it’s a good indication that he’s very into you.
2. He introduces you to his family and closest friends.
The more he brings you around the people that are most important to him, the stronger his feelings. Like, long-term love feelings.
Earlier, we talked about how Tauruses are slow-moving in love, among other aspects of life. Taurus guys are likely to ease you into their private lives, and this step is a big one.
So pay attention if he asks you to hang out with the fam over the weekend!
3. He hits the brakes on some aspects of your relationship.
I know. This seems like the opposite of what we’re talking about. But hear me out.
Taurus men are looking for a partner they can depend on, someone as loyal as they are to share their hearts and souls with without fear of rejection or unnecessary emotional pain.
It may surprise you, but while he does his thing making sure that you’re the one, he can seem like he’s gone a little cold. He might seem suddenly reserved when spending time with you—but he will keep spending time with you.
He may even pull back on the sexual side of your relationship but keep the cuddling going.
It seems counterintuitive, but it’s just the way he makes sure he’s getting to know you on a deeper level and that what you have is real.
This is where Taurus Man Secrets comes in, teaching you all about the heart and mind of your Taurus love so you two can remain connected.
4. He talks about the future with you in it.
Woohoo! This one is a lot clearer. When he discusses his future, he talks about making plans with you. Taurus men aren’t going to say things like that without meaning it—Tauruses are pretty straightforward in that way.
Maybe he envisions taking vacations with you. Or investing in property together (by the time he says something like that, there’s probably no doubt that he loves you). Whatever it is, it’s you and him for the long haul.
5. He brings the traditional romance.
Do you love having bouquets of flowers show up at work? Do little gifts from your man make you feel special?
If so, you’re going to love the Taurus man’s style. If he’s falling for you, he’ll turn on the old-fashioned romance.
Expect flowers, chocolates, mood-setting candles and music, things like that. Date-night sorts of restaurants, picnics, movies, walks in the park…
If he’s letting his romantic side shine and you’re seeing other signs on this list, you must make his heart go pitter-patter.
6. He tells you his secrets.
Is he prefacing what he says in your private conversations with “I’ve never told anyone this before,” or something along those lines?
It means he trusts you. Trust and loyalty are crucial for Tauruses.
Taurus men don’t divulge their innermost secrets to just anyone. When he gets to this point with you, you’ve probably opened up to him first, and now he feels comfortable enough to do the same.
7. He wants to touch you all the time.
Taurus men are affectionate with those they care deeply about.
He won’t be able to help but want to make physical contact with you in some way. That might be in the form of hand-holding and hugging. Little touches here and there. It’s gestures like these that give him away more easily than some of his more subtle signs.
8. He gets a little possessive.
Taurus wants to know that he’s the only one you have eyes for. (And speaking of eyes, his will give away how he feels when he looks at you.) This makes him prone to just a bit of jealousy.
Don’t be surprised if he makes it obvious around other guys that you’re taken. An assertive arm around your shoulder while you’re chatting with someone else wouldn’t be uncommon.
There you have it! These are some of the major things that give a Taurus man in love away. If you’re lucky enough to have a Taurus man’s heart, what are some of the ways he shows you?
Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s guide Taurus Man Secrets is the next step if you want to become knowledgeable on earning a Taurus man’s love and trust.
In it, she shares her insights based on her professional and personal experiences with the Taurus man she nearly lost—and then married once she understood what he needed.