How to Get a Scorpio Man to Chase You (7 Ways That Work)

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Want to know how to get a Scorpio man to chase you?

These are the important dos and dont’s:

  • DO be a little innocent
  • DO open up to the Scorpio
  • DO play the submissive role
  • DON’T be an open book
  • DON’T be an easy catch

If a Scorpio man seems like he’s drifting away or going cold on you, it’s not a closed book situation.

But you have to understand his mind and what he secretly wants from you, which you can do with Scorpio expert Anna Kovach’s Scorpio Man Secrets.

Click the link above to check it out now, or find out what makes you chase-worthy to the Scorp below.

How to Get a Scorpio Man to Chase You

To get a Scorpio guy to chase you, you have to be strong, yet vulnerable.

Open, but not an open book.

Sexual but not overtly so.

Submissive but not easy to take advantage of.

Are you up to the task?

Here’s how to do it.

Read next: How to Text a Scorpio Man

1. Play the part of the unsuspecting

You can look at Scorpio men like hunters.

And like hunters, Scorpios like when the hunted is unsuspecting.

You see, the Scorpio male loves—needs—the chase.

He wants to conquer your heart.

He wants to overwhelm you with sudden passion that you didn’t even know existed within you.

Someone who is chasing him back doesn’t leave much room to do that.

Showing your attraction for him with subtle flirtations is fine, but the key is to act on the naive side.

That will make the Scorpio want to pounce.

2. Reveal something personal about yourself

When you’re talking to a Scorpio man, go ahead and let him catch a little glimmer of the “real you.”

That’s what a Scorpio is attracted to and what compels him to keep pursuing you until he finds out more.

When I say “real you,” I mean the parts of you that you don’t give away to strangers and acquaintances.

But never put on a front with a Scorpio man, or he’ll be gone.

What you want to do is reveal a little bit at a time, giving him tastes.

Make sure what you tell him is genuine, truthful and of substance.

It doesn’t need to be a deep, dark confession, but it should be something that you consider personal, as long as you’re comfortable with sharing it.

Something about your hopes or your fears, for example.

3. Leave enough for him to figure out

While the Scorpio man wants to know about you and is definitely going to ask, he doesn’t want to chase a woman he’s placed into a neat little box in 2.5 seconds.

That’s too easy for him.

This means you should do what you can to put on a little mystery.

You can reveal truths without telling your whole life’s story.

Put some magic into your demeanor.

Sometimes saying less is the most powerful thing you can do.

Scorpios don’t mind if you’re quiet. They just want to know that there’s something brewing under the surface to discover.

4. Look sexy yet understated

Sex appeal is important to Scorpios.

What they find sexy doesn’t necessarily comply with common beauty standards, however.

Scorpios can be pretty individualistic in that regard.

That being said, form-fitting attire or something that shows off some cleavage in a tasteful way is a winner.

Many Scorps love high femininity.

On the other hand, some love a dark, vampy style.

You’ll have to go with your gut based on his personality.

But if he can see your curves, that’s always a good thing.

The only word of warning here is to not get too carried away.

You don’t want to be seen as solely a sex object to a Scorpio (or maybe you do…).

If you don’t, keep it sexy but kosher!

5. Play his game

A Scorpio man is a master at his game.

You’ll get caught up in his web, and you’ll be totally willing.

Scorpio men are dominant and *slight* control freaks.

Your relationship will invariably resemble some sort of dominant/submissive relationship in that the Scorpio will establish control early on and make it clear that he expects you to follow.

He might give you “commands” like to turn on your phone at 8 p.m. tonight because he’s only going to call once.

Follow his lead and he’ll keep calling.

6. …But don’t let him run you

Now here comes something of a contradiction.

Even though Scorpios like to be the dominant one in the relationship, they can’t think that you’re their toy or they’ll get bored.

You have to show them you are a willing participant in their games but that you have boundaries.

Set those boundaries and don’t let the Scorpio cross them.

If he goes cold and moody on you, don’t chase after him asking for his attention.

Scorpio guys need to know that you won’t stick around if they go too far.

There’s no fun in it for them if you’re a doormat, anyway.

To separate what you thought was true about Scorpio men vs. how to win a Scorpio man and take him off the market, check Scorpio Man Secrets.

7. Be slightly unobtainable

Scorpio men want what they can’t have.

They don’t settle for anything other than what they’ve used their strength and willpower to get.

It’s a bit of a game they play against themselves to see how powerful they really are.

If you throw yourself at a Scorpio man, nothing makes him lose steam quicker.

But if you make him work hard for some of your time, he’ll take that challenge gladly and he means to win.

Keep your availability more narrow than it really is and make sure you’re filling your time with your own pursuits so you don’t come across like you’re making him wait for no reason.

It’s got to seem like he isn’t your top priority.

Only then will he want to become it, or at least get close.

Other Scorpio Man Questions

How do you make a Scorpio man obsessed with you?

Have lots of respect for yourself, for one thing.

Scorpio men become obsessed with women who are strong and don’t lose their power to anyone else, the Scorpio included.

Mysteriousness, too!

Scorpios need a mystery to solve, layers to dig through.

In short, be a proper challenge and you’ll get a Scorpio man obsessed.

More on this in How to Make a Scorpio Man Obsessed With You.

Do Scorpios like to be chased?

It’s best not to chase after a Scorpio man, even if sparks fly between you.

Let him come knocking at your door.

If you chase him, he may feel like his personal space is being intruded on.

Either way, he’ll lose that spark and go cold on you.

So even if you have to wait, do let the Scorpio make the moves.

What kind of woman attracts a Scorpio man?

A woman with depth and wisdom attracts a Scorpio like a magnet.

She should be confident and maintain an element of mystery and intrigue about her.

While she should be no-nonsense, she should have a gentleness about her.

If she wears a curve-hugging outfit, she’ll get his attention.

If you want to know more, read How to Attract a Scorpio Man.

How do you keep a Scorpio man interested?

A Scorpio male’s continued attraction is not just about the woman.

It’s also about the dynamics between his love interest and him.

She has to make him feel safe and truly listened to.

A Scorpio man is looking for his soul mate. She needs to make him feel like she understands him.

She should also be submissive to the Scorpio man, but not to the point that she endangers her self-respect.

Signs a Scorpio man is playing you

If the Scorpion is using you, he won’t be affectionate, romantic or even particularly nice to you.

If you have a sexual relationship, he’ll be after sex and nothing else.

You won’t get any insight into his life and he won’t take you anywhere you might be recognized together.

Also, he won’t be particularly interested in your personal life.

How to make a Scorpio man miss you

If you haven’t been seeing the Scorpio man, you may need to find a way to get in front of him.

Run into him at a mutual friend’s party.

Show up where you know he gets lunch every day.

As long as he isn’t avoiding you because he’s upset with you, seeing you can bring back feelings for him and make him want to spend time with you again.

Learn how to keep a Scorpio man’s attention, win his love and build a satisfying relationship with Scorpio Man Secrets.

Its teachings are based on years of research, observation and knowledge from Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s clients dating and marrying Scorpio men.

Check out Scorpio Man Secrets here.

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