If you want to be with a Taurus man, you have to know how to speak his language.
Here’s what a Taurus man wants to hear:
- That you’re the mature, nurturing yet ambitious woman he’s been waiting for
- You’ll always tell him the truth
- You want to understand him (then show him you’re capable)
Before you get in too deep, you should know that just because a Taurus man is interested now does not mean he’s yours.
You’ll be ready to give him what he really needs if you learn how his mind works first, which a guide like Anna Kovach’s Taurus Man Secrets can help you with.
Click the link above and dive in, or find out what you should be saying to a Taurus man below.
What a Taurus Man Wants to Hear
Taurus men don’t just look for a woman.
They look for a partner.
When they’re interested in you, they’ll listen closely for cues that you fit their ideal type.
Broadly, that’s a woman with a good head on her shoulders who is both ambitious and family-oriented.
Most Taurus men desire a traditional life with children, a nice house, a white picket fence—the whole nine yards.
Let’s get into the types of things a Taurus man wants to hear from your lips.
Read next: How to Make a Taurus Man Addicted to You
1. You’re mature and responsible
A Taurus man is only interested in a woman who’s stable and takes care of her responsibilities.
He would prefer a partner who thinks about the future and socks her money away instead of spending it on superficial things.
These traits should naturally come out during conversation as he asks you questions and learns about you.
He should come away from a date feeling you’re in a solid place in your life, or you have plans to get where you want to go.
That’s the type of woman he can build a future with.
A very good way to soften up a Taurus man is to give him meaningful praise.
He takes a lot of pride in his life and the stuff in it—the sign of Taurus has the motto “I have,” indicating the importance of his possessions.
If he has a nice car or a nice home, you can easily compliment them.
Comment on how he must work hard to have them so you’re also acknowledging him and not only his things, which makes it more personal and flattering.
Compliment his taste in style, decor, art, music, food or drinks. He’ll want to share more with you.
3. Your nurturing side
Earlier, we touched on the fact that a Taurus man is searching for a family-oriented woman.
While it’s never a good idea to bring up how many kids you want on a date with a Taurus guy, there are plenty of other ways to be nurturing.
Talk about how you like to cook for people.
On a date, say your signature dish could upstage this restaurant’s and that you’d love to make it for him sometime.
Show enthusiasm and support for his goals when he talks about them.
There are even more ways of demonstrating your nurturing side, like showing sympathy to the Taurus. Make him see that you’re a caring person.
To him, a person who will be there for him the way he needs emotionally and physically is a rare find.
4. You want to understand him
The reality is, most women don’t understand Taurus men. And they know it.
If you were to say to a Taurus man that you totally get him, he’d be skeptical.
Still, it’s incredibly important that you do get your Taurus man, or he’ll feel like you’re not a good match and be on his way.
But rather than assuming that you know, make it clear to your Taurus that you want to know.
Ask him questions when he talks about himself. Then, be a great listener.
Do identify with him when he says something you can relate to.
Share your own stories and find things that you truly agree on and see eye-to-eye.
If you really want to get inside his head and prove yourself to him, get Anna Kovach’s insider tips in Taurus Man Secrets.
5. You only see him
It’s challenging to date a Taurus man.
For one thing, you don’t want to overwhelm him with thoughts of relationships and commitment in advance.
On the other hand, you don’t want him thinking you’re keeping your options open.
So, if you can drop subtle hints that you would not dream of entertaining any other men’s advances, that’s the ideal move.
One easy way to do this is to make sweet comments about him and what you like about him specifically.
If he asks questions, you can certainly say that you’ve deleted the dating apps from your phone.
If you see a chance to let him know that you’re a one-woman man, do it.
Just be casual about it. You don’t want him to feel like you’re overselling it.
6. You appreciate what he does for you
If he cares for you, a Taurus man will want to give you the world.
He’ll protect you, walking you to your car at night. He’ll defend your honor.
He will surprise you with gifts that he knows you want.
If you need his help, he’ll be there.
And while he doesn’t do these things just to get a thank you, he wants to know that you care.
So tell him in plain words that it means something to you.
Say you appreciate him—and give him praise!
It’ll make him feel good and demonstrate to him that you won’t take him for granted.
7. The honest truth
All Taureans will demand honesty and loyalty from you.
In fact, Taurus men will go so far as to test you on this.
If you want to make sure you don’t fail, always tell him the whole truth and nothin’ but.
Don’t leave details out to spare his feelings or try to make yourself look better.
A Taurus may ask you to repeat a story you told him before just to see if it’s still the same.
If you can prove to him that you’ll never lie to him, he’ll begin to trust you, which is a huge deal with the paranoid Taurus male.
Never give him a reason to doubt you. Even if it’s an innocent white lie.
Other Taurus Man Questions
What to text a Taurus man
If you want to get a Taurus man to notice you, text him first.
A simple “Hey, how are you” to start.
With a Taurus, you always want to move slowly.
Build a texting relationship by being friendly and easy to talk to.
When you’ve got his interest, bump it up to a flirty text here and there, but not overly flirtatious.
You can whet his appetite with some cute selfies and compliments.
See how to do it in How to Attract Taurus Man With Texting.
Taurus man behavior when he likes you
Notice if the Taurus man keeps turning up in your space.
Going to the same events or the same bars, or chatting you up on social media.
The more “around” he is, the more you should take notice.
He’ll do this on purpose because he wants to be near you, observe you and get to know who you are better.
He’ll also be super nice to you.
Like, much nicer and sweeter to you than he is to other people, paying you compliments and trying his best to charm you.
Read more in How to Know If a Taurus Man Likes You More Than a Friend.
How to emotionally connect with a Taurus man
Much more than through words, you want to connect with a Taurus man through the body and physical senses.
In his immediate environment, make sure he’s surrounded by comfy pillows, good smells and beautiful decor.
Touch him affectionately as touch is his love language.
If you want to go in-depth, here’s how to emotionally connect with a Taurus man.
How do you make a Taurus man miss you?
You have to be kind, patient and open with him, yet you don’t want to make the mistake of becoming overly available to him.
He can’t think he doesn’t have to work for it. He’ll miss what he can’t easily have.
At the same time, you should allow him to take the lead.
He doesn’t like feeling like someone else is controlling him, or he’ll cut them loose.
It’s all a balancing act with a Taurus man.
Read more in Will a Taurus Man Miss You?
How do you make a Taurus man feel loved?
The primary way to make a Taurus man feel loved is by making physical contact with him often.
Like gentle touches, hugs, kisses and running your fingers through his hair.
But a Taurus man also feels the love when you take care of him.
Anything you do to nurture his body (like cook for him) or his soul (like support him no matter what) shows him through action how you feel about him.
And for a Taurus, actions are way more important than words.
Check out our article How to Love a Taurus Man, too.
How do you know if a Taurus man wants you?
It’s pretty obvious that a Taurus man wants you if he can’t keep his hands off you.
Ever the gentleman, he won’t touch you in any inappropriate or rude ways (as no man should).
But he will find any way he can to make physical contact with you, even if it’s a brush of the hands or a hello/goodbye hug.
He’ll also be very attentive to you, possibly a bit shy and smiley around you.
And that stare!
Taurus men have a way of communicating just with their eyes that they want you.
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