What’s a girl gotta do to win the heart of a Virgo man?
In summary, here’s how to make a Virgo man fall in love with you:
- Be straightforward with him, always
- Don’t display emotional drama or neediness
- Stay true to your goals and command his respect
- Balance your independent, nurturing and vulnerable sides
Have you heard that Virgo men are picky? Even when they fall in love, they over-analyze it.
If you’re serious about getting a Virgo guy to pick you and TRUST that you’re the one, you need to read Virgo Man Secrets.
Click the link above or dive into our tips to get a Virgo man to catch feelings below.
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How Picky Are Virgo Men?
If you aren’t a Virgo, you probably can’t imagine how truly difficult it is to find someone to date and fall in love with.
At least, that’s how Virgo men feel.
They can have ridiculously particular standards, making it really hard for anyone to meet them.
Add to this an almost compulsive need to analyze every little detail and you’ve got a recipe for a single guy who can’t ever seem to find love.
And it can be really frustrating for Virgos.
Knowing this, it’s time to learn about what you can do to help a Virgo get out of his own way and realize love is standing right in front of him.
You!
Read next: How Does a Virgo Man Act When He’s in Love?
How to Make a Virgo Man Fall in Love With You
Do you have what it takes to make a Virgo man obsess over you?
What exactly are these deep thinkers attracted to in a partner?
In a lot of ways, reflecting back to him the type of partner that he is will win his love.
What type is that?
A stable, goal-oriented partner who is focused and driven.
But also a loving partner who will unconditionally support and protect the person he’s devoted to.
So, keeping that in mind, here’s what you should do to get into a Virgo guy’s heart.
1. Be a “what you see is what you get” type of person
Who gets close to a Virgo?
It’s definitely a steady, consistent type of personality.
You can achieve this by making sure your actions match what you say.
Don’t present a fake persona based on what you think he wants.
Be true to yourself and let that ground you.
Actually, being authentic and real with your Virgo guy from first impression onward is important in winning his trust, then his admiration, and eventually his love.
2. Be emotionally mature
Virgos are stereotyped as Vulcan types for a good reason.
They’re pretty much always in control of their emotions, on purpose.
They hate for feelings to rule them and mess up their neatly organized lives.
How can you roll with this?
By showing that you are an emotionally mature individual.
Someone who doesn’t want to play emotional games and try to force the Virgo man out of his comfort zone.
So if you want to be loved by a Virgo man, make sure he sees you as a pretty even-tempered person.
And stay away from drama!
3. Embrace your independence
No Virgo guy wants a clingy girlfriend.
Women with the best chance of getting a Virgo man are secure enough to keep doing their own thing.
That is, they don’t lose themselves in their relationships.
This is something a Virgo male can respect and understand.
Besides, he needs a lot of space from his partner to do what he needs to do, and maybe even isolate himself from time to time to recharge.
Show him that your own life will not be absorbed into his and he won’t be able to help but want you more.
4. Respect his ambitions
An earth sign, Virgos have a great need for stability and a desire to build something tangible in life.
Put these things together and you’ve got a man who’s highly focused on his pursuits, usually in his career.
But one thing’s certain, getting a Virgo to fall for you won’t work if you’re standing in the way.
You need to work with him, not try to mold him.
For sure, once he’s in love with you, a Virgo man is much more likely to make changes for you.
He is, after all, a giver by nature.
But he appreciates a little giving in return—by understanding his need to devote time and attention to his projects and and not asking him to change that.
5. Don’t compromise your goals
Keeping your own goals prioritized demonstrates that you have drive and focus, which the Virgo male prizes in himself as well as his partner.
However, sometimes this is easier said than done.
Virgos have a tendency to see how you could be doing things “better,” which will come out in suggestions of ways to rearrange your life.
But be warned: You should not lose sight of your needs and agenda.
You never want to seem weak-willed. That’s a no-no with Virgos.
Hey, I never said Virgo men were easy!
If you’re looking for a more complete list of “Dos” and “Don’ts” that matter more than anything else to a Virgo guy, they’re all in Virgo Man Secrets.
6. Be his equal
Virgo men want a partner who is their equal, no more, no less.
Now, that doesn’t mean you have to be good at all the same stuff.
Unless you’re great at things like calculus and chemistry, you probably can’t compete anyway.
Instead, you should strive to have confidence in everything you do.
Own your hobbies, your personality and your lifestyle.
Be proud of who you are and don’t be afraid to voice your opinions.
That’s the kind of strong woman a Virgo man wants beside him.
7. Be witty
Virgo men gravitate toward women who are charming and funny in a down-to-earth type of way.
Women who know how to place a witty joke in a conversation.
It might just be that a friendly, easy-going nature encourages Virgo men to feel comfortable with you, enough to at some point let their guard down.
One thing you can do is make small talk interesting for your brainy Virgo by making it humorous and playfully self-deprecating.
Virgos need comic relief, too!
8. Nurture him
Cancer men aren’t the only ones looking for a woman with a nurturing touch.
Virgo men might seem like they neither want or need it, but that’s not the case.
Why? Because deep down, Virgos struggle with insecurity issues.
And they really depend on their partners to help them rise above them.
Secretly, Virgo men want to be cuddled and told everything’s alright.
But don’t tell anyone that!
9. Show your intellectual side
Virgos are some of the brainiest people you’ll ever meet.
Being ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, they love to talk about whatever interests their intellectual minds.
But what they really want?
For you to talk back!
Don’t worry—you don’t need to be super intellectual yourself.
Just by expressing your opinions, questioning things and showing curiosity, you’ll be able to engage the Virgo man the way he craves.
Be still his beating heart…
10. Let him help you
Are you a strong woman who doesn’t need anyone else?
Well, as long as you need your Virgo man a little bit, that’s all he’s asking.
Virgo is the sign that represents service to humanity.
In his relationships, this means that he needs to be able to serve you.
It’s really that simple.
So let him!
Ask for his help, and let him feel like your hero.
When you nurture this need, you bring out his protective side and his emotions will naturally follow.
11. Be honest
Virgos demand honesty from their partners.
If they can’t trust you, they probably won’t touch you with a ten-foot pole.
So what if you told a little white lie one time?
It may be really intimidating, but you should fess up.
Virgos have eagle eyes that can spot inconsistencies in anything you say or do, which can lead to suspicions.
If your Virgo already suspects something’s up, your best move is to get ahead of it and tell him.
In fact, this can actually go a long way in building that important trust with a Virgo.
12. Give him time
Above all, don’t ever push a Virgo man before he’s ready.
Not that it will work.
But it might do damage if he feels emotionally manipulated, which will signal to him that there’s a major problem and cause him to back away.
One of the most important things you can do for your Virgo man’s love is to simply let him be.
Give him the time and space to proceed with caution.
Because Virgo guys really need that.
But this is just the beginning if you’re really looking for the answers about how to have a meaningful, long-lasting and even “forever” relationship with a Virgo man.
If that’s what you’re looking for, check out Virgo Man Secrets for all the answers you need.