If you’ve fallen for a Taurus man, obviously you want him to reciprocate your feelings. How is the question.
Here’s how to get a Taurus man to love you back:
- Make it clear how you feel, straight up
- Work on strengthening his trust in you and the relationship
- Be the mature partner he wants to end up with
If you feel like he’s suddenly pulling away for some reason, you need to be proactive.
You can learn what makes your Taurus man react the way he does and how to avoid making mistakes with him in Taurus Man Secrets.
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Why Isn’t He Reciprocating Your Feelings?
You may be thinking that because your Taurus guy hasn’t confessed his love for you, it means that he never will.
Or maybe you’re already involved with him and he’s blowing hot and cold.
It may take months for him to become exclusive with someone because he wants to make sure she is exactly what he wants.
In a relationship, sometimes he gets to a point where he feels like he needs to step back and evaluate.
This may be related to specific events that have him questioning the long-term potential of the relationship—but much of the time, that’s is not the case.
He’s just doing what Tauruses do—slowly making up his mind.
Your Taurus man probably has strong feelings for you, but he’ll only display his love when all feels right.
Read next: How to Keep a Taurus Man Interested
“I Love a Taurus Man”: How to Get a Taurus Man to Love You Back
First and foremost, you need to find a way to tell him if you haven’t already.
Easier said than done, right?
Well, the problem is, if you don’t make it clear how you feel, a Taurus man may never know.
He’s not going to be able to read your mind. It’s up to you to let him know what’s in your heart.
Worst case scenario, he doesn’t feel the same way and he will tell you that, not lead you on.
Will that hurt? Yes. But it’s better than wasting time and energy on someone who isn’t ever going to share your feelings.
Best case scenario? He does share your feelings. And now you both know so you can take the next steps!
Make it known that he can trust you
Taurus doesn’t normally have an abundance of friends and acquaintances. He prefers a small circle of people that he can trust and depend on.
If you want to be in this man’s life he needs to know that he can count on you no matter what.
The number one thing you can do to show you’re trustworthy is to just be patient.
Stay true to him while he’s taking the time he needs to process everything.
If you’re doing things like talking to your exes (even friendly text conversations), staying out all night and not saying where you were and that sort of thing, that’s not going to earn the Taurus’s trust.
Even if you’re not, it can be tough to figure out exactly how he’s interpreting the little things.
When Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s Taurus (then her boyfriend, now her husband) broke it off with her, she didn’t win him back until she figured out exactly what he needed to hear to feel secure in committing to her.
It’s all detailed in Taurus Man Secrets.
The point is, gaining his trust is no easy feat. You have to stick it out, even if he pulls away.
Use your best judgment and make it clear that you’re there for him and only him.
Offer security and stability
As an earth sign, Tauruses need to feel grounded and secure to function in the world.
Being a fixed sign as well, they are not too fond of change and take it harder than most.
What they need in a relationship is a woman who can offer comfort and stability.
If you desire his love, offer him the gift of constancy.
Keep your commitments. When you make a decision stick firmly to it. Be there for him through thick and thin.
Try to provide an environment that is comfortable, relaxing and steady.
Emotional stability is also important to the Taurus.
He’s not a fan of drama and will be instantly suspicious of anything that feels like emotional manipulation.
Calm, smooth and steady—that’s the way to a Taurus man’s heart.
A woman who is emotionally immature going to struggle to keep a Taurus man’s interest for long.
As mentioned before, he avoids drama like the plague and really just wants an easy-going (but passionate) kind of love.
Maturity in all aspects of life is key to put on display.
Show him that you’re thinking about the future and prioritizing your long-term health, goals and finances.
Live within your financial means. Show that you’re a responsible person.
Taurus males are family-oriented and often know that they want to start a family when they find The One.
But they must be certain that the environment they bring kids into is stable. That requires mature parents.
He won’t feel confident about sharing a future with you if he thinks it’s going to be difficult due to rash decision making and a too-carefree lifestyle.
Be honest with him
Being honest goes right along with being trustworthy.
He may not be an open book, but he’ll tell you honestly what he’s thinking and expects you to do the same.
Let him know what’s on your mind and don’t hold secrets from him.
He may not always like or agree with what you have to say, but he’ll respect the fact you were straightforward with him.
The worst thing you can do is try to hide something from him, even if you think it’s the best thing for the relationship.
If he finds out, he probably won’t be willing to take your perspective and will focus on the fact that you kept it from him.
Slow to act, slow to forgive.
Remember, patience is key with this guy. Don’t make him feel pressured to fall in love with you.
Give him time, follow these tips and that alone can do a lot for making him feel safe sharing his most intimate emotions with you.
If you’re struggling, you may need to dive deep into your Taurus’s psyche, which an in-depth guide like Taurus Man Secrets can help you with.
Because it’s written by someone who’s experienced it all and ended up on the other side of it, happily married to her Taurus man.