Worried that the spark is fading between you and your Taurus love interest?
It’s super common—the relationship with your Taurus man starts out hot, then suddenly, he goes cold.
Why? Here’s the quick answer:
- He doesn’t trust you
- He doesn’t feel wanted by you
- The sexual attraction has weakened
If you want to know how to keep a Taurus man interested and avoid these common pitfalls, we recommend getting a more in-depth understanding of your Taurus man with Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s guide Taurus Man Secrets.
If you’re ready to dive right in, check out the guide now, or keep reading for astrological tips that you can start using today.
How to Keep a Taurus Man Interested
Have you just started dating a passionate Taurus man and now you’re trying to make sure the romance doesn’t end?
Sometimes Tauruses are pretty shy, and even a little distant from time to time when they’re really into you.
Depending on what else he does, it can actually be a sign that he really is super into you, which you can read more about here: How Do You Know When a Taurus Man Loves You?
Otherwise, it’s not that difficult to keep a Taurus man’s interest if your values align and, very importantly, if he can rely on you.
Of course, there are some *other* things that are going to keep him coming back for more.
Read on to find out how to keep a Taurus man interested now and in the future.
Be a stable force in his life
Taurus is an earth sign. When you think of a Taurus, think of a landscape with a big boulder in it. The boulder doesn’t budge when you push it, and it’s a stable, ongoing fixture in the landscape at all times.
That’s kind of like the Taurus. And that’s what he wants from you, too. Give him the assurance that you are not a capricious person who will change your mind about everything from dinner plans to how you feel in the relationship.
A Taurus man wants a love that’s grounded and steady—no on-and-off business for him!
Learn to love routine. You and Taurus are much more likely to last if you’re not throwing a lot of surprises at this creature of habit.
Read next: What to Say to a Taurus Man
Take care of your appearance
Self-care means a lot to a Taurus man. If you think he won’t notice if you stop brushing your hair and start wearing sweats 24/7, he will.
Can you relax around him? Absolutely. In fact, most Taurus men love natural, easy-breezy beauty.
Do dress up when you go out if that’s what you did in the beginning of the relationship (since that’s what he’s used to—he’s not a fan of change). Do make an effort to look nice for him. He’s quite a visual type of person per his sense-driven astrological sign, which will help you understand why this is important to him.
Always show him your true, genuine self. If he senses something fake about you or how you’re acting, he’ll become very suspicious and think that he can’t trust you.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: Trust is hugely important to the Taurus man. He’s pretty much on Scorpio’s level in that department.
If he liked you in the beginning, it’s because he liked you for who you are. So why not give him more of what he wants?
Put your sense of humor on display
This down-to-earth guy is going to love it if you can make him laugh, or if you can laugh with him. I’ve known many a Taurus man with the heartiest laugh I’ve ever heard.
If you’ve ever noticed that a ton of comedians are Tauruses, it’s because Tauruses have a great love of humor. And they’re funny. George Carlin was a Taurus. Just sayin’.
Speaking of laughing, see if he’d be into watching stand-up comedy on Netflix together on the couch. Tauruses are homebodies, so he’d probably be more into that than going out to a live show.
Be busy when he calls once in a while
Like a cheetah, the Taurus man loves the chase. He really, really does.
For that reason, it’s not so bad to remind him of that every now and again. Hey, you’re a busy person too, right?
Make plans that don’t involve him sometimes. Live your life. It’s possible to be open and reliable and at the same time reserve some independence for yourself.
Keep the romance alive
In all probability, a Taurus man you’re dating is going to shower you with romantic gestures. They’ll typically be in the form of flowers, little gifts, snuggling and hand-holding.
Don’t be afraid to return his romantic moves. He’ll feel like you really care about him if you give him a little token of your affection, whether it’s store-bought or handmade.
Staying affectionate with him is a must. Tender touches here and there, words of endearment, the whole nine yards.
Develop sweet habits together
Since Taurus guys love routines, they will most certainly love it if you’re in theirs.
And sure, you can definitely do things like work out together and go to the farmer’s market on Saturday mornings.
However, something that would really take it to another level would be to focus on making some of those routines tender and sweet.
For example, checking in on him to see how his day is going at work. A quick text can be uplifting and if it’s a regular thing, something he comes to expect and crave.
Being a good cook can’t hurt
Have you ever heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? They were talking about Taurus.
This man lives to eat. So if you’re whipping up fabulous dinners, that’s kind of like the cherry on top.
Don’t underestimate what a delicious meal does for a Taurus.
Feed him, too. Like, literally. As a highly sensory type, the experience will be tantalizing for him—as well as the experience of feeding you. Be sure to do it with some sexy foods, like fruit.
Keep it low-key
Taurus men are not the type you’ll find hitting the clubs on Saturday nights.
Ideally, they’ll be able to share their love of loafing around on the couch with you or relaxing with a glass of wine after a home-cooked meal.
A woman who exudes sensuality in small, under-the-radar ways is going to drive a Taurus man wild day in and day out.
Anything from letting a cami strap slide down your shoulder ever so slightly to giving him a teasing smile will work its magic on him.
Note that it’s in the little things like these that really get him hooked. He’s always paying attention, so don’t think your techniques are too subtle to be noticed.
There are tons more ways to keep a Taurus man interested for the long haul and win his heart in Taurus Man Secrets.
What Not to Do
Flirt with other people
Think there’s no harm in a little go-nowhere flirtation outside of the relationship? It’s not going to fly with the Taurus.
He’s very prone to jealousy, and he’s not a fan of the idea that he has to keep tabs on you to make sure that you don’t stray. You may not even have this anywhere near your thoughts, but that’s how he’ll interpret it.
Do yourself a favor and don’t try to inflame his jealousy.
He’s got pride, the Taurus man. It’s best not to tease him, insult him or call his integrity into question, or the angry Bull might come out.
What he wants is someone who will be kind and gentle with him. He genuinely just wants a nice person for a partner.
Go out on the town every night
As I mentioned before, this guy is a bonafide homebody and he’ll get tuckered out fast if you’re always looking for a wild adventure. So be ready to hang up your dancing shoes most nights of the week.
If you’re a homebody, too, you’re an ideal match. But if you’re not, try to find a balance between the routine he loves and your need for excitement. And don’t try to drag him out of the house if he doesn’t want to go!
Some people thrive on drama. Taurus males do not. In fact, bringing drama into the relationship is one of the fastest ways to be shown the door.
It goes back to the stability thing I was talking about earlier. Your easy-going Taurean puts a great emphasis on smooth sailing, which means that you should resist stirring the pot.
Try to change him
Well, you can try. You won’t succeed.
Furthermore, he probably won’t like feeling like he’s being manipulated into being someone else. Again, that may not be your intention, but he may not react the way you want him to.
The best policy is to give him the room to be himself in all his Taurean glory. He’s a stubborn Bull, but if you show him you care for him just the way he is, you’ll be rewarded with loyalty like you’ve never experienced before.
Neglect your sex life
It can be dangerous territory letting the passion die. This sign has a healthy libido that will stay strong throughout the course of the relationship.
Sex is a priority in the Taurus man’s life. It’s not only an activity that he thoroughly enjoys, it’s also a way that he feels connected to you romantically. Someone with a similar libido is a good match for a Taurus man.
Play too hard to get
While it’s good practice to show your time is valuable to others and not break plans just to see the Taurus man, you do not want to make it seem like you’re not into him.
Playing too hard to get by doing things like pretending you don’t see him when you walk into a room or acting like you don’t like him will send him the message that he’s not important to you.
Which will make him stop chasing you.
It can be a fine line between being busy and being cold to him.
Check out Taurus Man Secrets for the skinny on all things Taurus man, from how to tell if he likes you to how to make sure that your relationship lasts for a lifetime.
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