How to Keep a Gemini Man Happy (12 Things You Should Keep Doing)

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In it for the long haul (hopefully) with your Gemini beau? Then it’s important that you know how to keep a Gemini man happy! Let astrology guide you.

Is It Hard to Make a Gemini Man Happy?

Not at all!

Your Gemini is an easy-going type of guy, so you want to match that vibe.

man carrying a woman on his back on the beach with a quote about living in the moment with a gemini man

Now, how easy or hard is it to get and keep his attention? That’s a question you can find the answer to in the ultimate guide Gemini Man Secrets.

As for making him happy, it really comes down to your ability to enjoy life the way he does. Live in the moment with him.

Of course there are other things that will ensure his happiness, but that’s really the foundation.

Let’s get into those other things I just mentioned right now.

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How to Keep a Gemini Man Happy

You’ll be able to keep your Gemini man happy if you don’t take things too seriously. Go with the flow and don’t get caught up in drama. 

Here are some ways to do that.

1. Embrace change.

woman sitting on a mountain top looking at the sunset with a quote about making a gemini man happy by breaking the mold

As a mutable (changeable) sign and also as one of the most restless signs of the zodiac, your Gemini hunk is going to switch it up on you, probably all the time.

Whether a new topic of conversation has suddenly entered his mind or he’s decided he wants to move across the country, he enjoys newness and contrast.

His dream partner is someone who will break the the mold with him.

2. Accept him for who he is.

You’d have a tough time trying to change him, anyway. As changeable as his thoughts and actions are, the core of his being is solid.

He won’t have patience for a partner who’s always looking for ways to “improve” him. Either love and accept him, flaws and all, or be prepared for him to cut ties.

3. Laugh often.

Geminis are the jokesters of the zodiac. If you watch them at a party, you’ll see them move around the room from group to group spreading laughter wherever they go.

Forever youthful in mind and spirit, Geminis adore good jokes if you can keep them handy.

They also just like to steer clear of conversations that take a turn into Serious Town (though intellectual debates are welcome).

Keep the mood light!

4. Always ask questions.

Your Gemini has an insatiable curiosity and a mind that goes 100 miles per minute.

Suffice it to say, he’s always thinking.

That means he needs mental stimulation. Provide it to him by asking him to share his ideas and opinions on specific subjects.

Ask open-ended questions and he’ll relish the opportunity to work out a dozen different angles to the answer. 

He’ll also feel that you’re genuinely interested in him and his mind, which will make him feel validated—and very happy.

5. Spend time together like friends.

closeup of a compass on a map with a quote about exploring with a gemini man

Dating an air sign is often like dating your best friend. This is definitely true for the air sign Gemini.

In his ideal relationship, you never stop exploring together and learning about each other. 

Friend mode coexists with relationship mode for him and is in fact as vital as relationship mode. It adds regenerative energy to your dynamic and ensures that you two really like each other, not just love each other.

6. Be positive.

Negativity really gets him down. And he doesn’t take it very well.

Sure, he can get in little funks himself from time to time, but he’ll always pull himself out of them pretty quickly because he doesn’t like to stay in that zone.

He’ll want the same from you. Stay upbeat and optimistic so your Gemini man can stay in that positive frame of mind.

7. Keep him guessing.

Have you ever dated someone who didn’t like when you changed things all of a sudden on them? That’s not an issue with the Gemini.

He’s always analyzing people and feels that he can predict their every thought and action when it comes down to it. So he’s only more deeply intrigued by you when he has to work at it.

Again, keep that brain of his active! He adores a good mystery.

8. Give him his space.

Crowding him out with neediness is a quick way to drive him away. He has to have space or he’ll do what he needs to do to create it.

Someone who understands this and offers him the room he needs without him having to ask is a dream come true.

You’ll find that if you give it to him, he’ll keep coming back refreshed and eager to spend quality time with you.

9. Keep dating life adventurous.

man kissing a woman holding red heart shaped balloons with a quote about going on an adventurous date with a gemini man

Dinner and a movie is so ho-hum to the Gemini. It might work once in a while, but it’s going to bore him pretty quickly.

He wants to have fun with you, not go to the same restaurant every week and then go home and watch Seinfeld reruns.

It’s OK to skip the candlelit dinner and go to a food truck event instead. Plan a day trip to the science museum. Go to a comedy club. Tell him you want to go skydiving together.

Take your pick!

10. Trust him.

It really irks Gemini men when their partners treat them like they’re untrustworthy because they like to do things on their own or with their own friends without you.

You’ve got to have faith that this is part of his personality. The relationship will not progress if you don’t.

In addition, he might not trust you if you can’t extend trust to him. It’ll create a feedback loop that’s sure to make you both unhappy.

11. Don’t place expectations on him.

Save future talk for the future. This moment is happening right now, in the present, and that’s where your Gemini beau likes to stay.

If you want the relationship to keep moving forward, allow yourself to enjoy the now with him.

Avoid placing anything on a schedule or making him feel like he has to live up to certain expectations that you’ve placed on him if you truly care about his happiness.

The way to have a happy, fulfilling relationship with a Gemini man is to let it breathe.

12. Keep the relationship fresh.

Never let things stagnate. Boredom is the bane of your Gemini’s existence.

If you fall into some seriously predictable routines, take notice and make a change. 

Your relationship should always be exciting and fun. 

Talk about new things and do activities together that make it feel like you just started dating and you’re still trying to impress each other.

He’ll love it if you take this initiative and is sure to reciprocate.

If you need answers to questions about keeping a Gemini man interested, happy and in love, check out Gemini Man Secrets.

Here’s what’s in the guide. 

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