It’s not impossible to make a Sagittarius man yours, but it’s not easy.
Here’s how to get a Sagittarius man to commit:
- Tell him you want commitment, but don’t keep bringing it up
- Give your Sagittarius the best relationship he’s ever had
- Make every day with him fun, spontaneous and interesting
- Allow him to keep his freedom
- Don’t put pressure on things
Before you read on, you should know that Sagittarius men are afraid of commitment more than anything else.
Your best chance to succeed and ensure he doesn’t get scared off is to understand his deepest desires, needs and fears with a guide like Anna Kovach’s Sagittarius Man Secrets.
Click the link above, or read on to tame the commitment-phobe Sagittarius.
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How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Commit
It may seem like it’s never going to happen.
Will a Sagittarius man ever commit?
It turns out, yes.
As long as he has certain needs met, such as his need for freedom.
Ultimatums aren’t really effective.
Your real power to make a Sagittarius man want to commit to you is how you make him feel.
You know the saying “You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar?”
That’s the mindset you’ll need.
Follow our tips below to catch that Sagittarius man.
1. State your case
A Sagittarius man needs to know what’s going on if he’s going to make the change you want.
He puts a high premium on honesty and would rather you just say what you mean.
Otherwise, he just assumes things are fine the way they are.
In reality, he’ll be clueless if you don’t say it out loud—that you want him to commit.
So start there!
2. Let it go
Once you’ve stated your case, don’t harp on it.
Bringing it up over and over again and asking if he’s given it any thought will make him close down.
Your Sagittarius man heard you loud and clear, and now he needs to figure the rest out for himself.
And anyway, pressuring this ultra flighty man makes him want to fly away.
Just know that even though he’s not talking about it, he’s thinking about it.
He’s silently judging your relationship and weighing the pros and cons before he comes to his decision.
In the meantime…
3. Focus on making every day count
The only relationship a Sagittarius man will make a commitment to is the one he truly enjoys.
He feels no obligation to do so for any other reason.
Which is why you have to put all your energy into having the best time whenever you’re together.
The days you see him should be full of fun and adventure.
Goof off. Laugh until your stomachs hurt.
Make each minute worth spending together by enjoying the here and now, not worrying about the future.
Your goal should be to make it so he can’t wait to see you again, each and every day.
4. Go with the flow
Sagittarius is a mutable sign, which means he has the gift of adapting to any situation.
In a relationship, he will happily go with the flow and make changes to fulfill your needs.
But first, he needs you to show that you can do the same.
If you’re too controlling, it will cause the Sagittarius man to keep you at arm’s length.
If he feels like you have too many expectations, he’ll feel suffocated.
Let things go and allow your relationship to blossom.
Show that you can have a good time even when things don’t go your way.
No Sagittarius man wants to be stuck with a stick in the mud.
5. Give him his freedom
A Sagittarius man comes and goes as he pleases and answers to nobody.
That is, until he becomes emotionally invested.
Once he’s in a serious relationship, a Sagittarius man holds himself accountable and will actually let you know where he is if you call.
Still, you can’t start boxing him in.
Don’t set new rules for him out of nowhere.
Avoid telling him what he can and can’t do or trying to schedule all his time.
Even married Sagittarius men need to be able to spread their wings, without getting your permission first.
Do that for him and he’ll have no reason to fear that you’ll clip them.
If you’re not sure what exactly a Sagittarius man expects, take advantage of the real-world relationship tips and advice in Sagittarius Man Secrets.
6. Be spontaneous
One of the best ways to make things interesting for the Sagittarius man is to do something unexpected.
Don’t be too predictable!
For him, commitment doesn’t need to mean boring routines every night and weekend.
He’s not a fan of that.
Instead, you should switch things up regularly and take advantage of cool things happening in your area.
Look up local events, visit new places, pubs and restaurants and keep your plans loose.
Be willing to make a change in your plans while you’re out if something fun comes up.
The important thing is that you’re open to new experiences, just like your Sagittarius man.
In his eyes, this will make you a better match for him.
7. Keep conversations interesting
Sagittarius men need intellectual stimulation in their lives.
They can do chit-chat and small talk, but if they’re going to commit to someone, that person needs to excite them.
The right woman for a Sagittarius man is full of ideas and is curious to explore them.
As your relationship evolves, don’t let the conversations die down.
Read up on what’s happening in the world, in the news and in arts and culture for inspiration.
Then dissect it with your Sagittarius man.
He’s a philosopher at heart, and he loves asking the big “why” questions.
Keep fueling his fire and he’ll be so fascinated that he’ll be bored without you.
8. Give it time
Only time and space can allow a Sagittarius man to get to a place where he’s comfortable with the idea of commitment.
This is especially true with a young Sagittarius man.
In this case, it’s even more important that you stay open-minded and not place heavy expectations on him.
From their thirties on, Sagittarius men may be ready quicker.
Even though he takes his time, once a Sagittarius man chooses to commit to you, he’s absolutely sure of it and nothing can make him turn back.
So allow him to take the time he needs to get there…and put the tips in this article into practice each and every day!
Other Sagittarius Man Questions
Why do Sagittarius men have commitment issues?
In short, because commitment means the death of their options.
Sagittarius men like to be ready to seize an opportunity, and they figure they can’t be tied down for that.
Relationships come with responsibilities to someone else, and they’d rather feel free to pursue their own desires and goals.
They don’t always realize that commitment and their beloved freedom can coexist.
Should you play hard to get with a Sagittarius man?
If you want a Sagittarius man to chase you, yes you should!
Giving him a challenge is a must for the competitive Sagittarius man.
Otherwise, he’ll get nervous that you may be the clingy type…
Read more about it in How to Get a Sagittarius Man to Chase You Again.
Do Sagittarius men get attached easily?
Most of the time, Sagittarius men don’t get attached easily.
But this is because most women don’t captivate them.
If a Sagittarius man thinks you’re special, he can and probably will get attached to you pretty quickly.
How do you make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you?
Make him crave you by being wild, passionate and incredibly interesting.
Then make him wait to hear from him.
The key is to act like you don’t have time for a man because you’re so busy living your fabulous life.
Find out how it’s done in How to Make a Sagittarius Man Obsessed With You.
How do you know if a Sagittarius man misses you?
When he finally texts or calls you.
Most of the day and night, Sagittarius guys are on the go.
They have a million thoughts running through their heads and a million things to do.
So if you won out over their busy task lists, it’s because they couldn’t stand not talking to you.
Find out how to make a Sagittarius man miss you like crazy.
How to text a Sagittarius man
Keep texts to a Sagittarius man short and sweet.
Make them funny, interesting or sexy.
A Sagittarius man wants to be shocked, surprised and entertained.
Keep all of this in mind when you’re texting him and he’s sure to want to keep the texting match going.
Read more in How to Text a Sagittarius Man.
How do you know when a Sagittarius man is serious?
He’s serious about you if he expresses his emotions and lets you see all sides of him, including the darker sides.
His affectionate nature goes through the roof and he wants to touch you all the time.
He’ll be the most supportive partner you’ve ever had because he cares about you unselfishly.
Read more signs in How to Know If a Sagittarius Man Really Loves You.
How to know if a Sagittarius man is playing you
When he continues to treat things like you’re two very single people.
He won’t take you out on dates, be romantic with you or be available when you want to call him.
He won’t even feel the need to hide that he’s seeing other women.
At least he’s honest about that, but it won’t sting any less.
How to get a Sagittarius man to open up emotionally
Take the bullet for him and open up to him first.
Asking him to share his intensely private thoughts and feelings is like asking him to stand in the street completely naked.
It’s too scary!
You should share something with him, and try to bring some humor into it.
Comedy makes him feel more comfortable when things get serious and allows him to say what he otherwise wouldn’t be able to.
You can learn everything you need to know to keep a Sagittarius man committed to you as long as you want in Sagittarius Man Secrets.
Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach wrote it for women who didn’t know what they were doing wrong with their Sagittarius men.