How to Please a Virgo Man Sexually (12 Steamy Tips)

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Need to know how to please a Virgo man sexually? Make his head explode in bed?

Here’s everything you need to do:

  • Get clean in the shower, then get *really* dirty together
  • Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay
  • Give him plenty of verbal direction and dirty talk
  • Play out each other’s fantasies
  • Know when to be dominant and submissive

Deep down, every Virgo man is looking for his sex goddess. But, his desires can be surprising and even contradictory for the uninitiated.

If you want to take his pleasure to the next level, we highly recommend Virgo Man Secrets.

Click the link above, or see what makes a Virgo man beg below.

How to Please a Virgo Man Sexually

If you talk to anyone who’s been with a Virgo man, you’ll often hear that it was the best sex or their life.

That Virgo men are passionate…and totally kinky.


This is just one of those under-the-surface things with Virgos you have to know.

Particularly if you want to trigger all that hot sexual energy.

Which is what we’re going to get into right now.

Read next: How to Make a Virgo Man Fall in Love With You

1. Take a shower together

Cleanliness is next to godliness for the Virgo sign.

Virgo men are down to get messy, but the act needs to start off with a clean slate.

Why not make it sexier and take a shower together?

Or a bath if you would prefer it, and light some candles and put on some mood music—Virgo men are similar to Taurus men in the way that they love a good sensual environment.

Whether you’re a bath or shower person, your Virgo man will love getting squeaky clean together so you can get dirty later.

2. Let him be of service to you

In bed, Virgo men are absolute givers.

This is a sign that will put your needs first.

Not because he feels like he has to, but because he wants to—Virgo men get a ton of sexual satisfaction from satisfying you.

Again and again.

So go ahead and “use” him a little.

He’s practically begging you to.

3. Tell him what you need

Most likely, your Virgo man can read your body to bring you to a state of ecstasy.

But, he would love it if you would tell him what you like outright.

A Virgo man takes direction well, and it turns him on to be directed.

Keep in mind that his number one goal is to blow your mind.

So putting the spotlight on your enjoyment and giving him full control of your pleasure is going to work double time in turning both you and your Virgo man on more.

4. Build up to dirty talk

Should you talk dirty to your Virgo man?

YES. Filthy, even.

But the key is to ease into it rather than launch into it immediately, which can be too aggressive at first.

When you hit the sheets, or even before, tease your Virgo man by telling him what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you.

Be a little subtle about it and let him respond to you.

As he gets into it, you can turn up the volume and get more explicit.

More than likely, he will always respond in kind.

And he will love that you’re giving him “permission” to talk as dirty as he wants to.

5. Get on top

Do you love the woman-on-top position?

Good! So does the Virgo.

Virgo men love to see you in all your glory, thoroughly enjoying the ride.

Plus, this is where “using” your Virgo man can come into play.

It’s a dream come true to watch you basically pleasure yourself with his um, *anatomy.*

6. Be a lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets

If you’ve read about Virgo men in our other articles, you may have seen that they want to be with a mature, sophisticated lady.

However, don’t let that lead you to think that they want a stiff partner in bed.

Ideally, a Virgo man’s sexual partner will show a modest face to the world, but let her inner wild animal out behind closed doors.

When it comes to sex, don’t hold back for your Virgo’s sake.

In fact, being a smoldering sex pot is one of the keys to his heart.

You can learn about all of them in Virgo Man Secrets.

7. Don’t skimp on foreplay

One of the best parts of sex for a Virgo man is the foreplay.

It gives him the chance to really build up your excitement and tune into your body.

Sure, there are times when a ton of foreplay isn’t really possible, like when you’re having a quickie.

But otherwise, take your time with the pre-gaming.

Really get into it, both giving and receiving.

Because even though a Virgo man is a natural giver, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to get pleasure, too.

Which is why someone who is also a giver is the perfect match in bed for a Virgo man.

8. Romance him

At their core, Virgo men are truly passionate, sensual and romantic sexual partners.

They can be wild and animalistic, but their feelings are never far from the act itself.

Explore the romantic side of sex with soft, tender touches.

Make out.

Look into each other’s eyes.

Let your feelings guide you and create a sense of intimacy.

9. Dominate him

Knowing what you know so far, it probably won’t shock you to learn that Virgo men like to be put in their place.

In other words, they will love it if you dominate them.

Even if they’ve been directing everything so far in bed, it can be a sexy and spontaneous turn of events for you to suddenly take over.

(Virgo sex goddess tip: Virgo men DO NOT love routine like Taurus men. They DO need spontaneity and mixing it up!)

Handcuff him to the bed.

Tell him he’s not allowed to touch you, but you can do anything you want to him.

BDSM territory?

Well, your Virgo man might just be waiting for you to open that door.

Which brings us to the next point…

10. Ask to play out his fantasies

No doubt, your Virgo has very explicit fantasies.

Even if you don’t realize it, he is secretly dying to act them out, but he may need you to give the green like that you’re into it first.

What’s the best way to do that?

Give it to him verbally.

Tell him you want to know his deepest desires and fantasies.

If he’s shy about opening up, try the next tip.

11. Tell him your fantasies

If you’ve been afraid to tell partners what your fantasies are in the past, now is a good time to overcome that fear.

Because your Virgo man just wants to make them a reality.

Seriously, even a shy, reserved Virgo man is as down and dirty as you want him to be, and even beyond that.

Some of the freakiest freaks of the zodiac are Virgos.

That’s a fact.

12. Let him dominate you

Virgo men like to explore control by both being dominated and dominating you.

However, it’s not like with Scorpios where it’s about the control itself.

It’s more that a Virgo man wants to explore raw passion and pleasure with you.

So, if in bed your Virgo man is taking the wheel, play it up and let him dominate you completely.

In fact, this is a good way to let him pleasure you.

Throw in some sex toys of your choice—whatever he can use to stimulate your erogenous zones and make it hotter than ever for you.

Do you want to give a Virgo man the best sex of his life every single time? Get him so hooked on you that he never wants any other woman but you?

If you said yes, you need to read Virgo Man Secrets.

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