Dating your Aries beau has been fun, but now it’s time to move to the next phase. If you’re here, you need to know how to get an Aries man to marry you, stat. Let’s talk about how.
How to Get an Aries Man to Marry You
Let’s get right down to it, shall we?
No matter how long you’ve been with your Aries, if you feel that you want to take the next step, there’s only one thing to do: consult the internet, of course.
Fortunately for you, we’ve done the research already. Here’s how to get an Aries man to marry you.
1. Slow and Steady Wins the Race
Why is this number one? Because it’s that important. You see, when an Aries likes someone, very often, he doesn’t like to go slow. Anything from wanting to jump into bed right away to getting into full-on love-goggles mode is pretty much within the realm of normal for Aries.
But there’s often a problem with this kind of scenario. And it’s not you, it’s the Aries. Let me explain.
If there’s one sign of the zodiac that crosses the street without looking, it’s Aries. To run with this analogy, Aries is the perpetual jaywalker. He’s already thinking in terms of whatever he wants that’s across the road—not about preparing, finding a crosswalk, even checking to see if there’s any oncoming traffic, etc.
While this sort of enthusiasm is the reason that Aries people are so often the first to achieve something great, it also means that Aries people are liable to get caught in a trap of their own making. When we’re talking about dating, all too often, the Aries enthusiasm leads the Ram into a situation where he suddenly feels that things are not quite right.
And the reason is that he skipped a bunch of steps. Important steps like really getting to know the person he’s dating or taking the time to build a strong, healthy foundation rather than focusing on the hot-and-heavy passion. In the end, Aries men may miss out on truly meaningful relationships due to their own tendency to rush into things, guns blazing. But you can help him with that.
What you can do is keep the pace smooth and even yourself. Don’t let your Aries man rush you or get too far ahead of himself, even if he’s professing his undying love in week two. Trust me, it’s better to slow him down now than let him run off a cliff. Aries men are known to drop relationships like hot potatoes out of nowhere, and this is often behind the relationship’s undoing.
The only surefire way to open up the possibility of marriage is to take it easy. Your goal is to ensure he gets the chance to find out how amazing you are. How else is he going to realize that you’re “the one”?
Have fun and make sure that you and your Aries are really spending time learning about each other and keeping things on the relaxed side. That way they won’t burn up and go poof.
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2. Don’t come off as eager for a proposal.
With Taurus men, getting a marriage proposal can be a matter of planting the seed quite obviously and waiting for it to grow. But that’s not at all the case with Aries men.
The last thing you want to do is pressure your Aries boyfriend into getting down on one knee. He won’t do anything he doesn’t want to do anyway, but you run the risk of coming across as needy. That’s something that’s off the list of Aries soul mate material.
But there’s another thing you’re missing in this scenario, a key ingredient of the eventual wedding cake you want. It’s giving him the opportunity to chase after you. Even if you’re in a relationship already, this holds true.
For Aries, excitement and intrigue are absolutely necessary. His paramour should offer these in spades if she hopes for wedding bells someday. And one easy way to ignite his spark is to remain a little mysterious. By that I mean, be busy when he calls sometimes.
3. Enjoy an active life together.
Having fun together is a big deal to the Aries. He wants to be with someone who can keep pace with his energy, that’s true. But he also wants someone who is as fun as he is.
Be spontaneous. Be willing to do things off the cuff when he suggests them, or to propose them yourself from time to time. That’s going to get you extra points for sure.
Go for it when he says he wants to try surfing together. Or if surfing isn’t your thing, ask him if he wants to go on a hike with you up a mountain.
Bold activities will get his attention since he’s a risk taker. But even remaining physically active together will help the bond grow. He’ll feel closer to you as you become someone he relies on for having fun. Remember that this is a man who is wonderfully childlike in his enjoyment of life and dive in with him!
4. Get in with his friends.
If he invites you to get to know his friends, it’s a good sign. Take advantage of it and makes sure that they like you. Shouldn’t be hard to dazzle them with your charm!
But it’s not so much that you need to try hard to earn their stamp of approval. It goes the other way, too—demonstrate that you enjoy spending time with his friends. It’ll encourage your Aries love to see you as long-term material, someone who will complement his life. And, his friends are important to him, so he’ll be reassured.
On that note, if you can get in with his family, too, that’s huge. If he hasn’t naturally invited you to meet his family, that’s OK. It doesn’t mean he’s not serious about you. It may mean that he hasn’t gotten there yet.
Be patient! If you’ve been seeing your Aries for a while, patience has probably become one of your strong suits, anyway.
5. Be his equal.
Holding your own around your Aries can be a bit of a challenge, especially if you’re trying to please him. But let me tell you, he is more pleased by a partner who challenges him than placates him.
Don’t go along with everything he says. Offer different perspectives when he thinks that he knows everything about a subject. And be willing to say no to him whenever you feel the need.
Aries people can be really focused on what they want, often to the exclusion of what others want. Kind of by accident, quite often. What this means is that the partner of an Aries should be ready to claim what they want, too. Your Aries will respect that, and respect you for your strength in demanding it.
Ideally, an Aries will find a spouse who can conquer the world with him, or at least conquer their own world beside him. The best step toward this is showing him that you’re as smart, independent, and capable as he is.
These tips are sure to help you on your path to happily ever after with your Aries, but there’s a lot more to know about love, sex and marriage when it comes to committing to an Aries man. There are tons of details in the ultimate guide Aries Man Secrets.