Let’s be clear. A Taurus woman isn’t going to follow you around like a puppy. But if she’s motivated and feeling lusty toward you, she won’t shy away from a romantic challenge. Here’s how to get a Taurus woman to chase you.
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How to Get a Taurus Woman to Chase You
In a way, it’s kind of simple. But at the same time, it’s easy to put her off with the wrong moves, even after you’ve initially hooked a lady Bull.
And if you’ve really turned her off, rest assured, you won’t be hearing from her again.
So to make sure that doesn’t happen, there are some basic rules you can follow that meet her expectations.
I’ll even tell you what to not do to send her running in the other direction. I can’t guarantee that she’s going to fall head over heels for you (you know, chemistry counts and all), but you’re much more likely to pique her interest with this list.
Do these things to get a Taurus woman to chase you.
Look, all five senses dominate the Taurus’s world. The Taurus woman’s head will be turned if you’re leaving a heavenly trail for her nose to pick up on.
Don’t overdo it, though. Bathing yourself in Brut is going to assault her senses and make her want to put some distance between you and her, so go easy. This woman loves subtlety.
Smelling great, check. Looking great, check check. Her heart will skip a beat, and you’ll be providing her with mental eye candy for the rest of the day. It will stick.
Again, you don’t need to wear formal attire when you see her or gel your hair up to the sky. Just make sure your appearance is neat, clean and stylish.
Taurus women dig a man with style, so give yours some spotlight.
Show her how fun/funny you are.
Want to get her really interested? Give her a taste of how spontaneous and fun you can be. Show her a great time and she’ll think highly of you.
Taurus females also love to laugh. Not just little giggles, but deep belly laughs. If you can make her laugh out loud and laugh with her, it’ll charm her socks off.
Let her know she’s witty, funny, gorgeous, deep, etc.
Compliment her. Later, compliment her again. A little “You’re gorgeous” or “I love how thoughtful you are” goes a long way with Tauruses.
They adore being adored. At the very least, it’s a surefire way to let her know your feelings, which she will appreciate.
Let her know you’re stable and independent.
No Taurus woman seeks out a partner who can’t stand on their own two feet. It’s not that she’s going to shun you if you’re in between jobs or something, but if you’ve got that stability that she craves, make sure she knows it.
This goes for whether you want to see her in a casual or more serious way. Trust me, she’ll like knowing it.
Buying her flowers doesn’t hurt.
Yeah, Tauruses really do like the whole flowers thing. As a Venus-ruled sign, Taurus has a deep appreciation for beauty and nature, which means that flowers are totally appropriate.
Sending her roses for Valentine’s Day or a beautiful, fragrant bouquet just because is the right move to make if you’re courting her.
Do this after a successful date and she’ll melt.
Send her racy texts.
Only do this if you’ve received CLEAR SIGNS from her that she’s open to it or if she’s initiated it. Heavy flirting and dates that go swimmingly open the door to sexy exchanges that will keep her coming back for more.
This is a good way to make sure the spark doesn’t fizzle out. A strong sexual appetite is part of her makeup and she revels in lust. She’s probably big on sexting, so if she finds you attractive and is into it, it’ll go a long way.
Make your place a palace of sensual delights.
Pull out all the stops when it comes to making your pad more comfortable, soft, good-smelling and generally appealing to her senses.
Vanilla scented candles, soft pillows, mood music, silk sheets…you get the idea. And don’t forget good food and drink.
What Not to Do When Trying to Attract a Taurus Woman
Even after you’ve put your best foot forward in seducing a Taurus woman, there’s a chance you could undo it if you’re doing the following things.
Don’t worry, she’s not necessarily going to run at the slightest faux pas. Just try to limit these particular ones.
Don’t try to split the check with her. Just pay for it. (Unless she insists.)
Who pays the bill at the end of a dinner date is a subject for some debate in the modern age. Some feel that the person who does the asking out should pay. Between a man and a woman on a date, it’s sometimes looked at as stuffy and antiquated for the man to pay. Then again, some see it as a matter of dating etiquette.
Every Taurus woman is different, so I can’t stay with certainty that she’s going to swoon if you pick up the check. But I will say that she loves being pampered, so if you can discreetly pay without making a big deal of it, it’s likely going to show her that you’re not counting pennies. A partner who isn’t stingy is important to her.
She may want to pay for the movie tickets later, or cook dinner for you next time (she’s probably a stellar cook as Tauruses are known for their culinary interests) in return. She’s about reciprocity for sure, but she will expect that you show her that it’s worth her investment.
Don’t try to move too quickly.
Rushing a Taurus will get you NOWHERE. In all things, romantic pursuits included. It’s one of the quickest ways to be shown the door.
If you really want a Taurus to chase you, seduce her slowly. Tease her. Let her determine the pace if she wants it to accelerate.
Don’t be aloof.
Do you normally play the whole don’t-call-or-text-for-three-days game? I mean, you can try with the Taurus, but if she isn’t getting a response from you and it’s in the very beginning of things, she might write you off or put you in the friend zone.
Don’t be aloof when you’re with her, either. It’ll annoy her. Just be yourself. Your charming self.
Don’t ruin the mood.
Let me tell you a story.
My Taurus friend went on a date one time with a man she’d been crushing on forever. Finally, he was single, and I think she was even the one who asked him out on the date. She was gushing over the phone about it.
We’ll, post-date, she was talking about how poorly it went. What really sealed it for her was that he asked her for toll money for the drive home and if he could take her leftovers home with him. Suffice it to say, she didn’t call him again.
Treat every moment like a real romantic one. And unless you’re starving to death, probably don’t ask to eat her leftovers like you’re her dad or something.
For the love of all that is holy, don’t cheap out.
If you’re going to take a Taurus woman out on a date, you best be sure that it’s going to meet her standards. Choose a place with nice ambiance or at least quality entrees, but scene-setting is preferable if possible. No McDonald’s or 24-hour diners.
If you’re buying her a gift, make sure it’s not the cheapest version you could find. She’ll know it, and she’ll make a mental note for future reference.
That doesn’t mean she expects expensive gifts, though. If you give her a card you wrote, she’ll love it. Just…don’t be cheap, OK?
She knows what she wants. You should, too. That means not making her wait, not flaking out on her and generally maintaining a steady presence in her life.
If she thinks you’re flaky, she’ll think you’re not serious or actually into her and she might lose all interest quickly.
Don’t be clingy.
There’s a big difference between being available and open, and being needy. Remember, Taurus women like independence, both for themselves and for you.
If you have the urge to call and text her every three seconds and dominate her time, just play it cool, hot shot.