So, the Taurus man you’ve got a crush hasn’t warmed up to you…yet.
Here’s how to get a Taurus man to like you:
- Make it easy to be around you—be laid-back, open and kind
- Give him attention, but don’t chase him
- Share his love of the great outdoors
- Enjoy a good joke and stay upbeat and positive
Afraid you’ll make one wrong step and lose a picky Taurus man forever?
If you want a Taurus man to stay obsessed with you, you have to start by understanding how he operates, which a guide like Anna Kovach’s Taurus Man Secrets will teach you.
Click the link above for the guide now, or dive into our top tips on winning a Taurus man over below.
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How to Get a Taurus Man to Like You
1. Be physically attractive to him
Taurus men are highly visual. They will make a judgment about you based on the way you present yourself.
A Taurus is not an especially harsh critic. But if you show up looking like a slob, he will think this is how you are and might even point it out to you.
You have to put the effort in to turn a Taurus man’s head.
Be well-groomed at all times, clean and neat.
Tauruses love a natural beauty, so do away with heavy makeup and look fresh, healthy and rosy-cheeked.
Looks aren’t absolutely everything to a Taurus man, but the right aesthetic can definitely get you in the door!
Read next: How to Make a Taurus Man Addicted to You
2. Be polite
Manners matter to all Tauruses.
If you come off as rude or inconsiderate, you’re more likely to make an enemy of a Taurus.
Taurus men like a woman who is tactful and kind to everyone she meets.
They like women who are ladylike.
That is, a woman who has good table manners, doesn’t swear like a sailor and says her pleases and thank-yous.
3. Enjoy nature
Did you know that Tauruses are nature lovers?
A lot of Taurus guys have pretty hardcore outdoor hobbies, like mountain climbing and whitewater rafting.
However, even a city-dwelling Bull will enjoy a walk around the park, breathing in the fragrance of the trees and admiring the flowers.
A super easy way to connect with him is to share his love of the outdoors.
If you’re not an avid hiker, get your sneakers on and go for a stroll around the park.
Do some bird watching and talk to the Taurus man about your fascinating experiences out in nature.
He’ll definitely have some stories of his own to share, and maybe also some suggestions for the best sights and scenery.
And boom! You’ve got a great conversation starter and an instant in with the Taurus man.
4. Give him compliments
A well-placed compliment will make a Taurus man smile.
He wants to be acknowledged for his good taste, his intelligence and anything he’s accomplished through sheer hard work.
When he’s talking, listen for something that means a lot to him, then find a way to wrap it into a compliment about him.
Like if he’s passionate about working in his garden. Ask to see pictures, then ooh and ahh at them.
The key is to make sure that your compliments aren’t hollow.
For example, asking for photos of his gardening skills and then telling him how great he is at it based on the evidence you just saw.
Otherwise, a Taurus guy may think you’re being insincere.
5. Be humble
As down-to-earth sorts, Tauruses like other down-to-earth folks.
They’re turned off by fakery and huge egos. If your head can’t fit through the doorway, a Taurus man is not going to give you the time of day.
However, you will win a Taurus man over by being humble and modest.
Taurus men admire this quality in everyone, even those with wealth and achievements to brag about.
6. Be calm and relaxed
Being an incredibly relaxed type of person, the Taurus man doesn’t get bothered easily.
If you’re tightly wound, you won’t necessarily ruffle his feathers. But you’re also clearly not feeling his vibe.
Tauruses need peace, harmony and stability to be happy.
You can be fun and lively—Taurus men like that kind of spice in a woman!
Just be sure you’re not the type to overreact or get bent out of shape over small stuff, or he’ll think you’re too fragile for him to bother with.
On that note, be prepared for the Taurus to test your limits to see if you can handle it.
If tests make you nervous, you might want to check out Taurus Man Secrets for the trick to passing (without losing your mind).
7. Focus on him
When you’re hanging out with him, you should make the Taurus man the main focus of your attention.
Tauruses respond well when they feel like you actually care and respect what they have to say.
This means it’s important to be a good listener, for one thing.
Beyond this, you’ll want to give him the majority of your time and not spread it too thinly in a group situation, say at a party.
It’s a tangible gesture that shows the Taurus man that you’re interested in him, not the other people around.
Just the fact that you find him so interesting gives him a reason to get to know you a little better.
Not because he has a big ego, but because he appreciates sincerity.
8. Be independent
Taurus men are only interested in women who are independent.
While a Taurus guy loves to be helpful and doting once he’s in a relationship, he won’t pursue a woman who hangs on him and expects him to do things for her.
If he were to get into a relationship with you, he would want it to be one where the two of you equally support each other.
Tauruses are about hard work and practicality. They need a partner who wants to build a life together, which requires both parties to pull their weight.
Show him that you’re a self-sufficient woman!
It’s never too early in the game to demonstrate your long-term potential to a Taurus man.
9. Have a sense of humor
Tauruses don’t get the kind of credit the class clowns of the zodiac like Geminis and Sagittarians do for their humor.
But these guys tell some funny jokes, and often the kind that will make you blush.
However, a Taurus man isn’t trying to win you over with his jokes.
He’d love to make you laugh, but he’s not going to be bothered if you don’t. He’ll just write you off as someone who doesn’t get him.
If you want him to dig you, laugh with the Taurus man.
Give him that attention that he relishes and he’ll give it back.
10. Don’t cling
You never want to appear needy! So make sure you’re not chasing after him.
Send him a message or dial his number and then let him get back to you when he has time, even if it takes a while.
If he doesn’t, you can give him a little nudge once in a while with a friendly text.
Just be sure you’re not overwhelming him. Keep your agenda plenty full so he knows that you’re just as busy as he is.
He likes it when he has to put some effort into seeing you.
11. Have a no-nonsense attitude
If you’re the type to play games, don’t bother with a Taurus man.
He has to feel like he’s standing on solid ground with you.
If he feels that you’re a wild card, you’re leading him on or you’re acting shady, he’ll walk.
Part of this is just being honest with him, which you should always do.
But also, you should never do things like trying to make him jealous just to get him to make a move on you. This will get you left in the dust.
12. Don’t be a Debbie Downer
A Taurus man is not attracted to anyone who is nitpicky or negative.
He considers himself a realist, but he doesn’t like it when someone is always poking holes in his ideas and his plans.
Want him to be into you? Keep things light and conversational.
Avoid seeming like you’re criticizing the Taurus. He takes it personally and it will muddy your chances with him.
Show him support and positivity and he’ll enjoy talking to you and being around you.
Other Taurus Man Questions
How do you know if a Taurus man likes you?
Signs a Taurus man likes you include:
- Showering you in attention and praise
- Paying your way, from coffee, to dinner, to dessert
- Hugging you and touching you innocently but affectionately
- Getting jealous about other guys
- Wanting to spend time alone with you
If you see these signs, you’re probably in with a Taurus man!
How do I impress a Taurus man?
You can impress a Taurus man with your modesty and great personality.
Don’t be full of yourself. But do be yourself!
Even though he’s a fan of luxury and expensive goods, he isn’t impressed if you flash your possessions to try to get credit.
And if you get a date with a Taurus guy, wear something pretty and feminine, do your makeup minimally and don’t forget to paint your nails to match your dress.
See our full guide on what to wear for a Taurus man.
How do you get a Taurus man to chase you?
You have to be soft, gentle and alluring with a Taurus man.
If you’re too forward, you run the risk of turning him off. He prefers subtlety, friendliness and innocence.
However, you do need to show him that you want him in the first place.
He won’t chase you without a signal from you first.
So you may have to put yourself out there initially.
Read more about it in How to Get a Taurus Man to Chase You.
How do you win a Taurus man’s heart?
As we talk about in How to Make a Taurus Man Fall in Love With You, you should show him that he can fully trust you with his heart.
No matter how romantic you are with you, he will not give you his love if he doesn’t have evidence that you won’t hurt him, cheat on him or take him for granted.
Once he feels that you’re loyal, he will let himself fall.
Other than this, you should be supportive and show him continuous affection and appreciation.
For a Taurus man, love is about what you do, not what you say.
Want to keep a Taurus man interested?
There’s a lot more to learn about Taurus men to have a successful relationship.
If you want to know how to anticipate his needs and avoid his triggers, we highly recommend Anna Kovach’s Taurus Man Secrets.
It’s a great resource to answer your questions and let you in on secrets you never would have guessed about what a Taurus man is really thinking.
He’s especially hard to read because he doesn’t say much. But he’ll keep testing you to see if you’re a match for him.