Waiting to hear that little four-letter word from your Gemini man’s mouth? How does a Gemini man express love, anyway?
You may be surprised because he hasn’t said it explicitly, but as we’re about to explore, it’s all in his communication with you.
Yep, really! You’ve just got to know the verbal cues.
But if you want the whole truth, Gemini guys are tough to pin down, so having this information is really a baby step toward helping you understand your Gem.
What it doesn’t do is help you move relationship forward, which is tricky with a flighty Gemini man.
In short: Don’t take those cues for granted. To tame a wild Gemini man, you really need to take the next step, which is why we recommend the comprehensive guide Gemini Man Secrets.
Otherwise, for some handy tips, we’ve got you covered below.
How Does a Gemini Man Express Love?
A Gemini man falling in love is a pretty obvious thing. At least, it can be to everyone—but you. Why?
Well, simply because it can be really hard to judge things from the inside of a relationship.
We second-guess ourselves, and we often decide to wait until there’s that one “real” signal that’s hands-down, THEE SIGN that someone is completely in love.
Trust me, I get that. And this is where astrology comes in.
Astrology tells us that Geminis are ruled by the planet Mercury, which governs communication. Mercury, the messenger god, is speeding about in the Gemini’s mind, constantly relaying messages back and forth between the Gemini and the outside world.
So when a Gemini man is in love with you, you have to look for the signs in his communication.
Read next: Gemini Men in Relationships (7 Tips on Dating a Gemini Man)
How a Gemini Man in Love Communicates
How does a Gemini man express love, you ask?
Sure, a Gemini in love wants to spend lots of time with you. He wants to go on adventures with you any chance he gets. He wants to be spontaneous with you and romance you.
I talk about some other ways Gemini guys show their amorous feelings in How to Know When a Gemini Man Is in Love.
But today, we’re going to dive into an often overlooked side of the Gemini’s love style. And it’s a big one.
He shares his knowledge with you.
Have you ever met someone who covered so many fascinating subjects in one conversation that it made your head spin? That was probably a Gem.
Geminis often seem like walking encyclopedias because, well, they sort of are. They absorb information (remember, they’re all about communication—which is information at the core) like sponges and delight in using it any chance they get.
But they’re not factoid machines. They’re storytellers. And when they love someone, they want to share that story with that special someone.
It’s common for Gemini men to want to take on a sort of teacher role in some sense. He loves to open your eyes to new things and wrap you up in a warm blanket of ideas, knowledge and theories. He doesn’t want to just tell them to you. He wants to share them with you.
In other words, he wants there to be a thread connecting the two of you, brain to brain. If you’re dating a Gemini and you feel like he’s teaching you things, he is expressing his deep feelings for you at the same time.
He communicates with you often.
A Gemini man in love wants to talk to you. Often. You’ll be hearing from him throughout the day, whether you’re in the same room, or at work, or 1,000 miles away on a trip somewhere.
Texts, phone calls, emails, Snapchat, whatever—he’s going to be sending you jokes and memes a plenty.
Geminis crave a mental connection with their significant others. What better way to establish one than through (continuous) conversation?
His communication will be largely social, like he’s talking to a good friend.
Yes, he needs an intellectual foundation with you, too, but much of what he wants to do is banter. Or check in with you and see what you’re doing. Or tell you about this cool new thing he just learned. Or what just happened to him at work…
More on gaining that necessary connection with your Gemini in Gemini Man Secrets.
He lets you into his inner world.
Is your Gemini telling you stuff that you’re pretty sure is privileged information that maybe only his closest friends know? That’s a pretty big sign right there.
Gemini guys are naturally chatty, but not about everything. Only when they are truly comfortable and emotionally attached will they start to divulge what’s underneath their jovial and witty exteriors. Their hopes, their fears, their problems and their traumas.
They may also share much about their family histories and their pasts. It’s like they’re recreating the story of their lives for you.
They’ll also share what they value most with you. You’ll discover what drives them, what they truly care about and even their vulnerabilities. It’s you and your Gemini against the world now.
He tries to make you laugh…all the time.
When I was in a long-term relationship with a Gemini man, I found that he could not stop with the jokes. He was always doing something that he thought would make me laugh (and entertain him at the same time).
Even at inappropriate times. Even if I was mad at him. And if I didn’t laugh with him, it would hurt him.
It was because humor was part of the way he communicated his love for me. Rejecting it was like rejecting him.
If your Gemini is always clowning around with you, it’s good to recognize that this has a purpose. It’s funny, but it’s not just for fun. It’s deeply intertwined with a joyful sort of love. Love can never be disconnected from the Gemini’s sense of humor.
Love to laugh? Find yourself a Gemini.
He values your opinions.
A Gemini man in love with you is no doubt going to spout many an opinion in your company. Sometimes to impress you, sometimes to shock you, and sometimes to get your honest feedback.
But he’ll also want to hear your opinions, because he genuinely values them. He’ll probably also tell you as much. You’re his rock, and he’s devoted to you in all ways, including intellectually.
He listens with interest when you talk about things you care about. He gives you the floor to put your two cents in when he’s off on a tangent about something.
A Gemini man who doesn’t care for someone might not bother. But a Gemini man who does will always encourage you to speak your mind.
Have you ever dated or been married to a Gemini man? What were some of the ways he communicated his love to you?
There’s a whole lot more to learn about Gemini men and navigating a relationship with one in astrologer Anna Kovach’s Gemini Man Secrets.