Splitting up with your Taurus guy was hard enough. Now how do you get him back?
Here’s how to win back a Taurus man:
- Be honest with him and admit your past mistakes
- Let him know you still have feelings for him, but don’t apply too much pressure
- Work on yourself and let him see the improvements in your life
A lot of people say it can’t be done, but as long as you *really* understand your Taurus ex and how his mind works, you have a shot at getting him back.
If you want to make sure you keep him for good, we highly recommend Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s guide Taurus Man Secrets.
Click the link above for Taurus Man Secrets, or read on for advice on winning your Taurus ex back.
Will a Taurus Man Come Back After a Breakup?
Good question—the answer is that Taurus men rarely give a past relationship a second chance.
If he initiated the breakup he may be wary of getting back together because once he makes his mind up he doesn’t like to go back on his decision—even if he’s wrong.
If you broke up with him, however, his ego may be bruised and now he’s too proud to admit it.
But will he ever come back?
It’s not too common, but it’s possible.
He needs to be available, for one thing! And he needs to feel like you truly get him.
The key is in knowing how to approach him.
Read next: How Does a Taurus Man Feel After a Break Up?
How to Win Back a Taurus Man After a Breakup
Admit your mistakes and apologize
If you’ve hurt him or if he’s holding onto memories of some epic fights, the first thing you’ll need to do is make amends.
You’ve probably heard that Tauruses are stubborn as hell, but they’re not so bullheaded that they won’t take an olive branch.
Tauruses are also ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty—they are actually great lovers of peace and do not want to fight.
By offering an apology, not only are you being open and honest about the past, but you’re also showing him that you care about his feelings.
He’ll respect that you were brave enough to own up to your part in the demise of the relationship.
Also, an apology helps to restore his ego and get the beginnings of a new relationship off on the right foot.
Keep it real
Being honest will go a long way with him.
If you miss him, tell him so. He needs concrete evidence that you want him back.
Communicate and be open about the problems that existed in the relationship.
Trying to push them under the rug will send a warning signal to the Taurus that you’re not being realistic.
If you’re honest and up front with him, he’s more likely to open up to you so that it’s easier to work out whatever went sour before.
The more of an open book you are, the more trustworthy you are in his eyes.
Anna Kovach can give you a good idea of what specifically the Taurus man needs to hear from you and how to rebuild his trust in Taurus Man Secrets.
Appeal to his senses
Of the earth signs, Tauruses in particular have a strong attachment to the senses.
Tasting, smelling, touching, seeing and hearing are all heightened experiences for them.
Use this knowledge to your advantage.
Always look polished and put together when you see him and wear a good perfume.
Use your voice whether in person or on the phone to soothe, entice and sympathize.
When you’re in person, when appropriate and if welcomed, you should try to make physical contact. A hug here, a hand touch there.
While this alone is not going to win him back, it’s like speaking his own private language.
Don’t rush it
Your Taurus doesn’t make decisions quickly.
Before you got together with him, he didn’t rush into the relationship. You should not expect him to rush back into one now.
He’ll feel more comfortable about the situation if you’re making it clear that though you want to give it another shot, you’re also not ready to just dive back in like nothing ever happened.
Tauruses are extremely practical folk, and they appreciate that same quality in a partner.
Show him that you’re being levelheaded about getting back together and it will take the pressure off him while giving him confidence that it can work.
This is a necessity if you were the one to hurt him or call off the relationship.
Even if he wants to talk to you he won’t make the first effort. He’s stubborn so you’ll have to make the first move.
As you know, he’s not going to just come back right away, so you can’t give up easily.
Prove to him you’re serious about trying again and putting in the work that needs to be done.
A Taurus man needs to see measurable improvements before putting himself back into a situation where he could get hurt.
Work on yourself
Perhaps more than any other sign, the Taurus man likes a woman who has her sh*t together.
He’s a pillar of stability, and he doesn’t want a partner who might come in and throw everything off-balance.
Managing your finances well, being disciplined and being aligned with your goals is a turn on for him.
Working on your mental health, physical health and spiritual well-being will also make you more attractive to him.
In general, be the best version of yourself that you can be with or without your Taurus.
If you want to know your Taurus man—really know him—on a level that you never realized existed and keep your rekindled romance on the right path, read Taurus Man Secrets.