Trying to get a Sagittarius guy to want you back? You’re in the right place.
Here’s how to flirt with a Sagittarius man:
- Make it clear that you’re attracted to him
- Flirt with your hands—he likes physical affection
- Give him your best smile and upbeat attitude
- Be spontaneous, fun and funny
Sagittarius men love to flirt, but relationships scare them.
The best way to move beyond flirting and get a date is to know how he operates on a deep, subconscious level with a guide like Anna Kovach’s Sagittarius Man Secrets.
Click the link above for the guide, or dive into the flirting tips below.
How to Flirt With a Sagittarius Man
1. Show him your playful side
If you’ve gotten to know a Sagittarius man or two, you probably noticed how light-hearted and carefree they seem.
That’s because Sagittarians aren’t troubled by the usual stuff—they’re too focused on having a good time.
To captivate him, give a Sagittarius guy a sample of how fun you can be.
Have a little mischief in your eyes and your answers when he asks you questions.
And yes, it’s totally OK to be silly.
The last thing he wants is to get stuck talking to a woman who takes herself too seriously.
2. Make it obvious
When it comes to interacting with a Sagittarius man, subtlety is not his strong suit.
If your flirting is too low-key, he may not notice, or he may second-guess it and assume you’re just being nice.
Help a guy out.
Use verbal and body language that expresses how you feel toward him.
That is, face him with your whole body, lean in and compliment his amazing arms.
Tell him you think he’s cute if you want.
Just don’t sit back and wait for him to take a hint, or you’ll probably go home without his number.
3. Ask him to do something crazy with you
One thing you’ve got to know about Sagittarians is that they live life to the fullest.
If it means having a great time or a new experience, a Sagittarius man will even jump right into doing something risky.
So if you want to get this fire sign really excited, do something out of the norm with him.
For example, you could ask him to take a night swim at the pool.
The best part is, you’ll get to see him shirtless.
Doing something totally random and exciting gets his blood pumping and sets a lusty mood for him.
4. Be friends
Even though you want it to be crystal-clear that you’re attracted to him, you should also be a friend to the Sagittarius guy.
Don’t worry that he won’t see you as a potential romantic match for him.
As fun-loving, laid-back people, Sagittarius men often develop romances with their female friends.
To them, this is perfectly natural.
When you hang out with him, imagine you’re trying to seduce your best guy friend.
Make your hang-outs relaxed and casual, but keep that sexual energy going and continue being flirty and sassy.
He’ll think you’re cool and sexy—just his type.
5. Keep it light
With a Sagittarius man, you don’t want to be dark, brooding and serious.
He prefers the vibe to be breezy and natural.
Getting into emotional subjects and sharing feelings is not what he’s about.
As he puts his attention on you, you’ll notice that what he offers you is amusement and playful energy.
That’s what he wants in return.
If you’re worried that he won’t take things seriously enough to go on a date with you, you misunderstand him.
He connects with you by having fun with you, then the romantic feelings follow.
However, if he’s one of the Sagittarius types who doesn’t “do” dating, you may want to take Anna Kovach’s approach to changing his mind from Sagittarius Man Secrets.
6. Go along for the ride
If you’re hanging with a Sagittarius man, you could find yourself on quite a journey.
He enjoys social settings where he can mingle with people, and in fact this is the perfect environment for him to hit on you without feeling awkward.
If you want to build up some electricity between you, go with him.
See where the night (or day) takes you.
Stay upbeat and show him how much of a blast you have together no matter where you end up.
By the night’s end, he’ll be looking at you in a new, attractive light.
7. Touch him in a friendly but affectionate way
Sagittarius men express their desire for you through physical contact.
They can be somewhat awkward about it, though.
They don’t like to seem overly pushy or aggressive, but their touches will still be affectionate so that you’ll know they’re not just friendly.
This is something you should do, too.
Reach for him playfully with light, quick touches and smile while you do it.
Watch how he reacts. If he’s not into it but you didn’t realize it, he’ll laugh nervously and move away from you.
If not, you have correctly interpreted his longing for you to touch him!
8. Smile and laugh a lot
You want to show the Sagittarius man that you’re happy, optimistic and fun to be around.
That type of woman is full of smiles and laughter.
If he’s flirting back, a Sagittarius will no doubt be dropping jokes and puns aplenty to impress you with his comedy genius.
Be genuine with him and laugh out loud.
Don’t try to hold back because you’re afraid he’ll think you’re too into him and decide not to chase you.
In reality, the Sagittarius man needs to know that you want him first to even put in the effort to pursue you.
So reward him with your winning smile.
9. Make him laugh
He doesn’t want to be the only hilarious one.
Sagittarius men find funny women extremely sexy.
Come armed with some jokes and try to pull off some witty comments on the fly.
Entertain your Sagittarius man—that’s what he wants.
Sexually charged jokes are also A-OK with him.
Just get him laughing.
Other Sagittarius Man Questions
Should you text a Sagittarius man first?
Sure you can!
In the interest of getting him to chase you, you may want to give it a few days and see if he doesn’t text you first.
That being said, he’ll welcome you popping onto his radar with an intriguing message.
If you want to know how to text a Sagittarius man, we’d suggest that a first text keep in line with the rest of our advice about flirting with a Sagittarius guy.
That is, make it friendly, funny and/or seductive.
How do you know if a Sagittarius man is into you?
If he likes you, a Sagittarius man is physically affectionate with you.
He’s definitely not the type to get touchy-feely with everyone.
In general, he’ll be notably attentive to you.
He’ll be truly engaged in what you’re saying when you talk, and getting him to see you won’t be like pulling teeth.
Get more signs in How to Tell If a Sagittarius Man Likes You.
How can I impress a Sagittarius man?
You can impress a Sagittarius man with your smarts and your travel stories.
Accomplishments like traveling the world make a Sagittarius man’s ears perk up.
And as the sign of the philosopher and teacher, Sagittarius thinks intelligence is very cool, as is having an open mind.
How do you make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you?
Knock his socks off in the adventure department.
Introduce him to some brand new sensations and show him a great time.
Put your passions on full display as this fire sign likes a feisty woman.
How to Make a Sagittarius Man Obsessed With You has lots more tips.
How do you seduce a Sagittarius?
If you want to seduce a Sagittarius man and take him to bed, thrill him.
Show up wearing something that doesn’t leave much to the imagination.
Send him naughty texts and pictures.
Read How to Seduce a Sagittarius Man Sexually for the details.
Note, a Sagittarius man can go from zero to seduced pretty much immediately, so get ready!
Do Sagittarius like to cuddle?
A Sagittarius likes lots of room and physical space, so he’s not huge on snuggling up.
At least, not for any great length of time.
It’s not that spooning is out of the question, it’s more that if he has other things to do (which he pretty much always does), he’ll be antsy to do that instead.
Accept a quick cuddle where you can get it!
Do Sagittarius men fall in love quickly?
It’s completely possible to make a Sagittarius man fall in love with you within weeks of meeting you.
He is, after all, a passionate fire sign.
The issue is more that he doesn’t find many women to fall in love with.
His life is just too busy, and many times his phobia about committing to someone and sacrificing his freedom is too great to let him open up his heart.
A woman must really know how to identify with a Sagittarius man’s fears as well as his goals and deep-down needs to grab his heart.
If you don’t know where to start, we highly suggest Sagittarius Man Secrets.
It’ll train you in no time to speak the Sagittarius man’s language, understand how to get him to fall in love and most importantly, hold onto him.