Is your Aries coworker flirting because he’s into you? How do you know if an Aries man likes you? That’s what I’m going to be clearing up for you in this article.
The Flirty Aries
Boy does Aries love to flirt. With a lot of people. And he’s good at it.
Problem is, when someone’s a generous flirt, you need another indication that they have a special liking for you.
On the other hand, this fire sign’s passionate nature cannot be contained. That means that when an Aries does like you, it’s intense, and it’s pretty easy to pick up on that.
But does he like you, just you and no one else?
Well, if he’s just getting to know you, the Aries man is probably not going to show his hand there. He very well might have his sights set on you alone—Aries men are very quick to decide what they want and make a move. They don’t waffle about that kind of stuff like their opposites, Libras.
On the other hand, the casual Aries might be into you but have a couple of options up his sleeve. But if you like him back, by picking up on what he’s putting down you can be the one to grab his full attention.
Of course, there’s always more to learn. I like relationship astrologer Anna Kovach’s Aries Man Secrets for the plethora of really juicy tips on attracting and maintaining the affection of an Aries.
But for now, you can start with the basics here in this article.
How Do You Know If an Aries Man Likes You?
No doubt, Aries men are bold when they’re crushing on you. It’s in their astrological DNA to be daring, which tells you something about how they show their affection.
Here’s a hint: Like a hawk, Aries prefers to swoop in directly on his target.
So how do you know if an Aries man likes you?
Let’s count the ways, shall we?
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1. He’ll Show Up Where You Are
Is your Aries acquaintance suddenly appearing at your regular haunts? Aries coworker taking breaks at your lunch spot?
This is one of the first signs that he’s trying to get closer to you—because he can’t help himself.
This is an active, highly driven sign. He’s going to show you he’s into you with his actions, and he’ll make it known that he’s showing up where you are to get your attention. With a big old smile, he’ll park a chair next to you and start trying to charm your socks off.
2. He’ll Ask You Out
It’s easy to interpret this signal. When an Aries man asks you out, he’s feeling you. He doesn’t do that kind of thing without meaning it.
It might be comforting to know that it’s pretty typical for an Aries to ask you for the first date, and pretty soon. He doesn’t drag his feet. And he doesn’t easily accept defeat.
If he asks you out and you say no, don’t be surprised if he tries again. This fire sign has his eye on the prize and there’s not much that can deter him.
Have you been waiting for him to suggest dinner? You won’t have to wait long. He’s likely to bring it up soon after he realizes he has the hots for you.
3. He Wants to Do Fun Stuff with You
In a lot of ways, Aries is like a big kid. After all, he is the first sign, the baby of the zodiac. He’s playful, fearless and enthusiastic, and he loves to have a good time.
This fun-loving soul will try to incorporate you into his adventures, whether hiking, rock climbing or doing something totally out of the ordinary. Even low-key Aries natives will show you their spontaneous side.
Go along with it and be spontaneous with him and you’ll win his heart in no time.
4. He Wants to Know What You’re All About
I’ve never known an Aries to fake interest in someone. The whole polite chit-chat thing has a cap for Aries people—they feel they have better things to do than listen to someone prattle on about their day.
For this reason, it’s a pretty slam-dunk sign that he’s fond of you when he actually sits still to listen to everything you have to say and ask you more about it. Once he gets a feel for it, he’ll ask you about topics you care about to give you a chance to speak on your passions. Generous, no?
He’s trying to get to know you as well as he can because you’re genuinely intriguing to him.
5. Yep, He Flirts
Did I say this already? Aries men are gigantic flirts, but particularly with someone they have a crush on.
Expect the flirting to be shameless. Tons of compliments on your looks, hugs, electric conversation, the whole nine.
I would say that the difference between his regular flirting style and flirting with someone he’s super into is the energy. It’s turned up and blatantly obvious, as bold and brazen as his personality.
6. He’s a Show-Off Around You
What he’s good at, he’ll want you to see. And what he’s not good at, he’ll want to try anyway to impress you.
Not infrequently, his method of showing off around you will entail feats of strength and daredevil actions. He’s a real physical sort of guy, and he hardly ever looks before he leaps.
Just make sure you don’t encourage him to do risky moves on your account! As the Aries motto is do first, think later, he can get into trouble that way.
7. He’s Hands-On
The Aries man can sure get touchy-feely with someone he likes.
Every Aries is different, but there’s a good chance he’ll be trying to touch you when the opportunity arises. And if it doesn’t arise, he’ll make one.
This is part of the heavy flirting he does with you. As I said before, he makes it well known what his feelings are.
8. He’s Protective
Is he opening doors for you, helping you carry groceries to your car, and killing scary bugs in your apartment for you? That’s a smitten Aries.
He goes out of his way to do things for you and ensure that you’re well guarded and looked after. This is a role that this masculine sign loves to play—even though he seeks a strong partner, he still wants to be the protector.
9. He’s Very Public with You
This is not the type of man to hide you while he courts you. On the contrary, Aries men often make someone they like the center of attention.
Plenty of Aries guys will ask a potential partner to come along on trips or family gatherings (if he wants you to meet the fam, yeah. You’re special to him.)
You’ll probably meet his friends and get a real insider’s look at his social life. And he won’t be shy about PDA.
Though he still needs a significant amount of “me time” for himself, he’ll present plenty of chances to hang out in a social atmosphere.
10. He’ll Try to Move Fast
Aries is the trusting sort, the kind of guy who’s led by his heart (and passions). Unlike Scorpio, who carefully tests you a little at a time to see if you’re worthy of his love, Aries wants to hit the gas ASAP. Slow and steady are not part of his vocabulary.
A word of warning: It’s wise to make him take things a little more slowly if you want to establish a lasting relationship. I explain more about this in How to Make an Aries Man Miss You.
But yes, in general, an Aries who wants to skip steps and jump right into the serious part has quite a thing for you.
11. He Might Pull Out Romantic Gestures
The reason I say that he might do the typical romance thing is that not every Aries necessarily will. Sure, there are many Aries men who will surprise you with a dozen roses. But others prefer to show how they feel through actions like protecting you and being there for you.
If you’re a sucker for a candle-lit dinner, an Aries man will want to please you and do that for you if he knows that’s what you love.
But he isn’t a hopeless romantic for just anyone—just someone he’s head over heels for.
Getting your feet wet reading up on Aries men? You can take the plunge and dive deep into his heart, mind and soul in Aries Man Secrets.