Has the Gemini guy you’ve been seeing vanished into thin air? Is he over you or what?
Here’s what he’ll do when a Gemini is done with you:
- Pay you less and less attention until you can’t get any of his time anymore
- Become much blunter with you
- Leave your texts on read and go totally incommunicado
The thing about Gemini men is that they move on fast.
If you want your Gemini boyfriend to stay 100% committed to you, we highly recommend learning about the Gemini male’s psyche and deep-rooted desires with a guide like Gemini Man Secrets.
Check out the guide above, or scroll on for some big signs he’s over the relationship.
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Why a Gemini Man Leaves
Gemini men can be fickle.
It can be frustratingly difficult to figure out what went wrong when the Gemini guy you were dating stops calling.
Here are a few reasons it might happen.
The Gemini mind is always moving a mile a minute.
A side effect of this is that he easily gets bored, which is an intolerable state to a Gemini.
Plenty of variety, spontaneity and banter keeps this man happy.
When things become too predictable, it can kill the relationship for him.
He feels tied down
Like the wind, he values being able to go in any direction he chooses (he is an air sign, after all).
If he feels like he constantly needs to check in with you and like you’re not open to him taking advantages of opportunities that pop up, he’ll feel stifled.
And no Gemini, committed or not, is prepared to accept that.
He’s not looking for a relationship
Lots of Gemini men’s dating lives look like a revolving door.
If the Gemini you’re seeing doesn’t want to get serious, he’ll just want to enjoy the time you have together for what it is—before it ends.
And if he senses that things are going down the commitment path, he’ll cut ties. Rather abruptly.
Surprisingly, even if this happens, there are ways to get him back—the easiest of which Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach details in Gemini Man Secrets.
The point is, don’t lose hope—being aware of the telltale signs that he’s pulling away is a crucial first step.
Gemini Man: When a Gemini Is Done With You
1. He doesn’t pay attention to you
This is something of an early warning sign.
While you’re talking to him, he’s scrolling through Instagram.
When you’re around other people, he finds a reason to ditch you for the night.
Geminis who are losing interest in you aren’t going to stay around much longer.
Read next: How to Play a Gemini Man at His Own Game
2. He doesn’t spare your feelings
Geminis who no longer have an emotional attachment can totally lose their sense of politeness with you.
While Geminis do usually tell it like it is, their concern for your feelings will also be evident while you’re dating.
But, toward the end, they can just come across as rude.
3. He tells you he doesn’t want to date you anymore
A Gemini feels no compunction about speaking his mind.
He wants to tell you the truth to both free himself and you.
So expect a Gemini man who wants to fly solo to let you know in no uncertain terms.
4. He ignores your texts and calls
No matter how hard you try, you’re getting nothing by dial tone with this guy.
When you text him, you get no reply…even if you can see that he read your text.
And this keeps happening.
Whereas once he may have gotten back to you later on or the next day, he’s just leaving you hanging.
5. He blocks you
If you discover that a Gemini man has blocked your calls and messages, it’s a declaration that it’s over.
This can come as a big surprise and sting quite a bit because it’s so obvious what he’s doing.
It’s hard to take this sign any other way.
6. He disappears…for good this time
Geminis are famous for vanishing for days on end, then hitting you up like nothing happened.
This is not necessarily a sign that he’s done with you as it could mean that he’s just trying to preserve his freedom or he just needs time to think.
But when a Gemini man has decided it’s over, you likely won’t see him turn up at your door again.
This time, he’s gone for good.
7. It’s like you don’t exist
All attempts to contact him are dead in the water.
If you see him out, he does his best not to come face-to-face with you.
When a Gemini guy sees a relationship as truly over, he tries to close the book on it as quickly as possible.
So if it seems like you suddenly don’t exist in his world, you know he’s made the decision to move on.
If this happens to you and you’re not ready to lose this guy, you need to move quickly.
Gemini Man Secrets is a quick read and will give you all the fuel you need to get a Gemini man back, hands down.