Enough tiptoeing around it. You want this Cancer man now.
If he hasn’t made a move yet, here’s how to seduce Cancer man:
- Make him a romantic dinner
- Be a good listener and care about his emotions
- Walk on the beach at sunset
- Make a move but take things one sexy step at a time
You need to work your way up to getting physical with a Cancer man while he gets comfortable with you.
If you’re not sure what the wrong moves to make with a Cancer man are and how to avoid them, you can learn in Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach’s Cancer Man Secrets.
Click the link above or read on to get hot and heavy with a sweet, sexy Cancer man.
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How to Seduce Cancer Man
These men love romance but seldom make the first move due to their shyness.
Even when he’s turned on, he’s too sweet to come on to you, afraid that he will offend you with his passion.
Luckily, following these tips will get this usually reserved guy coming out of his shell and displaying his full primal energy.
Read next: How to Attract Cancer Men
1. Make him a candlelit dinner
They say food is the way to a man’s heart and this is even more true with a Cancer man.
Cancer rules the stomach. So as you can imagine, a home-cooked meal can bring on comfort, happiness—and even lusty feelings.
Make something elegant and delicious and light candles so the soft lighting plays off your features.
This is mood setting 101 with a Cancer and works like a charm.
2. Emphasize your femininity
Though Cancer is a feminine sign, it has nothing to do with how masculine or manly a Cancer man is.
In fact, Cancer men tend to take on traditional male roles and can even come off as a bit macho.
The takeaway here is that Cancer men are strongly attracted to (and turned on by) the uber feminine.
From what you wear to the vibes you emit, play up the femininity—however you do feminine—and watch your Cancer man turn into a puddle.
3. Go on dates near water
Oceans, lakes, rivers—Cancer men feel calm and happy around water. (After all, Cancer is a water sign.)
If you plan a date near the water, whether it’s dinner on a deck or a walk on the beach, he’ll feel right at home.
Why is this good? Because getting him to relax and kick back is a step toward making him comfortable enough to show his passionate side.
This shy crab might even go in for the first kiss!
4. Go slow at first
I’ll tell you something you may not have ever known about Cancer men.
They are highly sensitive to physical touch.
But for this indirect sign, seduction starts slowly with the “innocent” types of touch.
You know, a friendly enough touch of his hand or face while you’re chatting that sends electricity down both your spines.
Cancers love the slow build-up until you’re tearing each other’s clothes off.
Check Cancer Man Secrets for other little-known seduction tips that tend to fly under the radar.
5. Take care of him
Cancer is the sign of the Nurturer.
Both men and women of this sign love to play the caretaker, but it should never be ignored that they also adore being taken care of.
Maybe a little back rub to loosen up his muscles after a stressful day at work is just what he needs.
It’s all about being attuned to what he needs in the moment and trying to provide it.
This is super sexy to Cancer and bound to get him to want to reciprocate.
6. Be compassionate
As a sensitive and gentle man, Cancer desires someone who is empathetic and caring.
To make this man weak in the knees, really listen to him and respond to him with kindness.
Make him feel like what he says and feels is truly important.
Nurture this man’s emotions if you want him to feel a connection with you, which he absolutely needs to feel desire.
7. Show off your assets
Wearing something that accentuates your body is going to catch the eye of a Cancer man.
Not something super revealing—just something that hugs your curves in the right places and leaves the rest to his imagination.
Don’t worry if you don’t have ample curves. Your Cancer just wants to ogle you on the sly.
8. Make a move
Even if they’re burning up inside, Cancers worry that they’ll do something to spoil the moment.
What if you reject them?
Your Cancer man will appreciate it if you take the lead on this.
You can simply tell him you want him or take his arms and wrap them around you.
Whatever you’re comfortable with—it’s all he needs to get the green light to get physical with you.
9. Send him flirty texts
Even if you can’t be with him physically, you can still get him hot and bothered through texts.
Texts are a great way to bring out his passionate side because they give him the opportunity to say what he wants but is too shy to in person.
Start by reminding him of the fun you two had the last time you were together.
Tell him how much you miss him and if things get hotter, what you want to do when you see him next.
Just be sure to keep it classy. Cancer men don’t care for raunchiness.
10. Be romantic
Cancers are naturally romantic people and want the moment to be just right to get intimate.
You can help by turning up the romance yourself.
Use mood music, write him a playful note, dance to a song on the radio.
Do it with a twinkle in your eyes and he’ll be right in that zone with you.
Once you’ve successfully seduced your Cancer man, if you play your cards right, you’ll have all the romance, lust and steamy passion you can handle from a man who absolutely worships the ground you walk on.
If you want to make sure the relationship keeps sizzling (or how to get him to put a ring on it), Anna Kovach covers what you need to do in Cancer Man Secrets.