If you want an Aries man, we get it. Aries men are hot.
Here is how to make an Aries man want you, bad:
- Give him lots of attention, but have your own life
- Act like a boss and know your worth
- Give him just enough to whet his appetite and make him chase you
- Be willing to be vulnerable with him
Before we get into it—often, when you think they have an Aries man based on the usual signs, he slips right through your fingers.
Unless you know the real Aries man underneath—his secret fears and desires. If you want to learn how to speak his language, you need to read Aries Man Secrets.
Click the link above, or check out our tips below on making an Aries man hot for you.
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How to Make an Aries Man Want You
1. Flirt (of course!)
It’s good not to beat around the bush with an Aries man.
Just flirt with him!
You can do it as openly as you like.
In fact, the more clear you are in your intentions, the better.
Aries guys don’t like to and will not spend a ton of time trying to figure out whether someone likes them or not.
So brush up on your flirty skills and get that Aries man intrigued.
Read next: How to Drive an Aries Man Crazy
2. Act like he’s not the biggest deal
Aries men have a boatload of confidence.
Probably for that reason—that and their devilish charm—they’re used to having women fawn over them.
But what they secretly crave is a woman who isn’t so easy to figure out.
Flirt with him, yes.
But then, oh my, look at the time—you’ve got to scoot.
That’s how he’ll play it…unless you do it first.
Then he’ll be eating out of the palm of your hand.
3. …But don’t ignore him
Paying him no attention at all will likely make an Aries guy shrug and set his sights elsewhere.
You just need to know when to hit the gas and when to brake.
You don’t want to rearrange your schedule just because he calls, but you do want to make sure you make plans.
Let him know that you’re busy, but you can squeeze in a drink next Saturday night.
When you’re with him, make sure he can tell that you’re paying him serious attention.
Dig into his mind. Ask him questions that get him to share his world with you.
Make plenty of eye contact.
That’s how to make an Aries man want you.
4. Make him chase you
This is one of the most important tips on this list.
Don’t let him move too quickly with you. Play hard to get.
Make him chase you no matter how into you he seems.
This is crucial because it’s kind of difficult to keep Aries men interested.
Aries men are winners.
They need a good challenge—so make it challenging.
If it all comes too easy to the Aries, he’s liable to get bored.
Just give him a little bit at a time and inspire him to pursue you to the ends of the earth.
If you’re not sure how to go about that, Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach can teach you in Aries Man Secrets.
5. Be witty
An Aries man wants to be charmed.
He wants that woman who’s a breath of fresh air.
If you have a sharp sense of humor that you can wield on point, you are going to score huge points with an Aries man.
Don’t be intimidated if you haven’t mastered the driest wit.
Just make him laugh.
Have a few good comebacks.
Tease him just a little bit, but gently and good-naturedly—keep it light!
Be your charming, funny self.
6. Be brainy
What’s hotter than a smart, funny woman?
To an Aries man, not much.
Ruled by the head, Aries guys are quick-thinking and clever people.
You need to keep up!
Be ready with some interesting conversation.
Intellectual stuff is sure to excite him.
Don’t feel the need to venture into subject matter that you don’t feel comfortable in just to impress him.
Share your knowledge on your true interests.
Stimulate his mind—that’s a huge turn-on for Aries men.
7. Be a boss
Are you confident?
Do you not let anyone tell you what to think or do?
If so, you’re the kind of woman your Aries man is looking for.
Aries people aim high and don’t stop until they reach the top.
They’re empire builders and they aren’t afraid of what other people will think.
Neither should you!
Be the boss you know you are and let your sexy confidence seduce your Aries man.
8. Let him help you
Aries guys have Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome.
They go weak in the knees for a maiden who might need their help.
You don’t want to be helpless—a strong (boss) woman is what Aries men are attracted to.
But a woman who is also strong enough to show her vulnerability is sexy to the Ram.
(Yes! Being vulnerable takes guts.)
You don’t have to pretend your world will come crashing down without the Aries man’s assistance.
Next time you’re struggling with your car, go ahead and see if your Aries man knows how to fix it.
9. Be a daredevil
Aries are some of the most physically active people around.
And they like their sports risky.
In fact, an Aries man’s idea of a great date is to go hang gliding.
Something fun, kind of intimidating and bound to get the heart pounding.
If you’re aiming for a date, you can increase your chances if you show your Aries that you’re down.
Not into danger? A good old-fashioned hike through the park or woods will do.
Anything that shows the Aries you’re the kind of woman he can have fun with.
When you’ve gotten your Aries man where you want him, what are you going to do next?
Do you want to date him? Fall in love with him? Maybe one day marry him?
Aries Man Secrets is your road map.