How to Get a Gemini Man to Miss You (7 Tips, Plus the #1 Tip That Works)

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Does your Gemini boyfriend think about you when you’re not together? You might be wondering how to get a Gemini man to miss you. Here’s how to do it.

How to Get a Gemini Man to Miss You

The better question might be, how do you make sure that you’re one of the many thoughts that run through his busy mind all day?

Gemini guys have restless minds and restless curiosity. They’re always off onto the next thing that captures their interest. 

The thing about Geminis is that they don’t linger on things—not even their feelings. Not for long, anyway. That translates to your Gemini beau being well capable of focusing on other things when you’re not around. And he will.

Now, that doesn’t mean you don’t pop into his mind. But you want to be more than a fleeting thought if the goal is to make him miss you. Like, really miss your smile, your voice, your touch…

That’s not an impossible task. 

In fact, following the steps to really make him miss you will do double duty as something that can bring you two closer together. By captivating his mind and thoughts, you’re ensuring that the Gemini considers how much you mean to him, how sexy you are—in short, how lucky he is to have you.

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The Case for Doing Nothing

What if I said that the first thing you should do to get him to miss you is *not try*?

Hear me out. 

You know how Gemini guys are easily distracted? It’s not something they would consider a flaw. To them, being free to explore what they want to explore is of the utmost importance. 

So, first and foremost, what you want to do is let them be themselves. If you openly push for their time and attention, they might start to feel like the walls are closing in. The easiest way to make sure this doesn’t happen is to do what this mutable sign does, and go with the flow.

I’m not suggesting that you treat him like he’s not important to you. If you’re in a relationship or want to be in one with your Gemini, you want to make it clear when you’re with him that he really does it for you.

But the object here is to not push his boundaries or make him nervous that you need him 24/7. In this case, it’s best to keep living your life when he’s not around pretty much the same way you would if he weren’t in it. By that I mean, keep your schedule.

Do stuff without him. Go out with your friends. Visit the museum by yourself. Keep your wine and painting nights on your calendar. 

Here’s why:

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

man and woman having coffee outside at a cafe with a quote about dating a Gemini man

This is a saying that was kind of made for the Gemini man. Basically, how to make a Gemini man miss you starts here. 

Geminis are represented by the astrological Twins. While one wants to have fun with you and spend his free time with you, the other wants to do whatever he wants to do, totally independent of anyone else. You’re trying to appeal to the first twin, the one that can’t wait to see you.

How do you do that? Don’t pay attention to it when you and your Gemini man aren’t together. Can you respond to his texts? Of course. Can you text him when you feel like it? As long as it’s not all day, every day, sure. If you’re focusing on your own life, you’ll naturally give those vibes off to your Gemini and he’ll come running. Or, they’ll come running. Both twins.

He needs to feel free.

If your Gemini starts to feel like you’re cutting into his “me time,” he could very quickly pull away from you. It’s got to be on his terms that he gives you the special attention that you crave.

By keeping yourself occupied with your own needs and schedule, you’re giving your Gemini the time he needs to nurture his own interests. He really needs that, and he definitely appreciates it. In fact, he can’t have a partner who keeps him away from his own private life.

If you can show him that you’re that person, he’ll automatically start missing you. He’ll see you as his other half, the free individual who complements his lifestyle so perfectly.

He likes a challenge.

Yup, Geminis are like so many men in this way. They do like a challenge, so be ready to provide one.

Let me share my experience with a Gemini man I ended up dating for some years. In the beginning, I wasn’t particularly looking for a relationship with him. And that translated as a challenge.

We met at a bar. I wouldn’t give him my number the first time, or the second time. The third time was apparently a charm.

As you might imagine, I was not in a rush, and he was well aware of that. And I believe it made him all the more crazy over me. He gushed to me all the time how amazing I was and did his darndest to make sure that we were officially an item.

Now, if you know you want to be with a Gemini man, you don’t have to refuse to give him your number like I did. Just play it cool. It will excite him and stir his imagination. Suddenly you’ll be on his mind a lot and he’ll need to see you whenever he can.

What You Can Do to Get Your Gemini Man to Miss You

OK, so now that we’ve talked about my number one tip to not come across like you desperately need him, let’s talk about the little things you can do to ensure that you’re on his mind.

Because you can still follow certain steps to add the right amount of subtle persuasion.

If you really want to understand exactly what your Gemini man is looking for in a partner and predict his reactions, check out the eBook Gemini Man Secrets.

Do something nice for him.

A brown box gift with a blue bow on a gray background with a quote about giving Gemini men gifts

Gemini men might not be overly sentimental, but they aren’t heartless. It might surprise you, but Gemini men appreciate thoughtful gestures. Whether you plan a romantic date night or give him a token of your love, it’s going to show him that you really do care about him.

Leave reminders of yourself behind.

Leave something (attractive/interesting/unique) of yours at his place. Slip some sexy underthing into his stuff to find later as a surprise later. Something tangible to remind him of you…and get his mind working.

Switch up your look.

Change your hairstyle. Buy a bold new outfit. Do something out of the ordinary. It will grab his attention.

Go on spontaneous outings.

Go on a fun adventure the next time you spend time together. This man thrives on change. If you show him that you do, too, you just might become who he thinks of when he wants to do something fun.

Make him laugh.

Man and woman cooking in a kitchen and laughing with a quote about dating Gemini men

When you’re with him, try to appeal to his sense of humor. If he’s like most Geminis, humor a huge part of his world. Geminis love to laugh, and they love people who can make them laugh.

Gather interesting conversation topics.

See that new cerebral indie movie people are scratching their heads about. Read a book on a new subject. Stay up on recent events or developments in science and tech. When you tell him all the cool things you learned about, he’ll think about them, and then he’ll think about you.

Be his friend.

Don’t forget to just be a pal to your Gemini. Having a good time together like friends do is going to do a lot more than you might imagine to get him to fall hard for you.


Got a good tip to make a Gemini man to miss you? Tell us what’s worked for you in the comments and share it with the Zodiac Guides community!

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Here’s what you’ll find in the guide.

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